feel free to send me a response any way you'd like. in my inbox (on or off anon), in dms, on discord, in the notes etc. whatever youre most comfortable with
disclaimer/things to note:
im on the aspec (aplatonic, aro, ace), i struggle with pds and anxiety (esp social)
i try my best to give everyone equal attention but it doesnt always work out.
i need to know what your boundaries are and what youre okay with because there are times when im very affectionate, affection repulsed leading to dry replies, go radio silent etc.
i have a hard time contacting people first and starting convos
that said, heres some questions to get the application started if youre still interested!
what type of relationship are you looking for with me?
-queer platonic
-friendship
-familial
-other(feel free to specify/explain/expand on this)
give me some basic info about you? /np
(name/tag to refer to you by, prns, age, whatever you feel like sharing/adding on)
what are some of your interests/likes and dislikes? and hobbies and/or spins/hypfixes?
my inbox is always open for the nd folk who'd like to ramble about their spins or hypfixes.
what kinda jokes do you like/what humor are you okay with?
if theres a type of humor you dont like, say self deprecation jokes, i'll be sure to avoid those around you and instead make jokes i know youre okay with, say "dad jokes" or the like.
have we talked much before?
if we have, what sort of things do you like talking about with me?
if we havnt, what things would you like to talk about with me?
what are things you like about me?
be as specific as you'd like!
what are you looking for in a relationship?
what are you hoping for or expecting?
are there any things i should make note of?
use this to express needs, boundaries etc!
do you have any questions for me?
ask anything at all!
free space!
add anything else i didnt cover or that you'd like to add here!
Birds- mostly indian ring necks, She-Ra, Anime, and drawing and singing.
What type of humor do I like-
I like dad jokes mostly and I’m little ify of sex jokes and self deprecation jokes.
Have we talked before-
I don’t think so… I would like to talk to you about topics that interest you and I. (I don’t really have a good answer for this one.)
What are things you like about me-
I like that your willing to try and put effort into making things comfortable for everyone.
What are you looking for in a relationship?-
I’m looking for a good time to have some fun with someone I care a lot about.
Are their anything I should make note of?-
Since I’m also Aroace I wanted to let you know. I’m sex repulsed and romance ambivalent. Also I’m very affectionate, I’m a little hot headed at times but I hope that’s not a turn off for you. I also suffer from depression and anxiety. I’m not a fan of horror because it scares me and I hate being scared and that’s about it.
Free space-
Oogly Boogly :)
ah sorry i didnt respond earlier
i love she-ra, if it wasnt clear by my writing blog lol
i also like birds and drawing :D
would you like me to fill a form like this out for you too? /gq
