#relationship question

[aestheticfilmss]

Relationship Question

why do some people fall so quickly in love with someone and consider that person to be their “forever”? And why is it that they get upset when you tell them it won’t last? 

& then they do break up after a year of dating....like ummmm told you this would happen. 

[starkercrossedlovers]

is it not considered cheating if you talk like this then?

No, because she knows that my heart is with her. She trusts me and I her. What she is to me is deeply important and special, and we understand that these anons are fun and flirty but are not like what she and I have.

That being said, what I share with my anons is also special and important in very different ways. They place their trust in me and I take that seriously in taking care of them.

[otrippiehippieo]

pros and cons to open relationships? inbox is open, hit me with ‘em.

[genuine-questions]

Why do a lot of girls decide to “test” relationships in often bizarre and outlandish ways? My logic is they just need to properly communicate and be honest with each other

[wrathful-reptile]

I don't mean to pry too much, so feel free to ignore this question if you like, but something you said yesterday made me curious. What exactly are your feelings toward poly relationships, for yourself specifically? Not implying there's anything wrong with not wanting to be in one, I just wanted to hear more about what you think/feel there.

Oh, because of the odd question I was sent out of nowhere?

I welcome them and while I’m not sure how I would fit into one, I definitely support them. 

I’m such an odd, cuddly person, I can’t even figure myself out when it comes to a lot of stuff. 

I’m not sure if a poly relationship is for me, but I’m not sure if it’s not.

You get what I’m saying? Possibly not. I’m confusing myself a good bit.

The point is Poly relationships are great but I have no clue if they’re fitting for the type of person that is me. I don’t know if they’re not fitting, either. 

[kaleid-tay-scope]

6, 9, 10

6: What are you looking forward to in the next week?

Getting my new health insurance policy so I can get basically unlimited physical therapy!!!! ✨ Right now Medicare is severely limiting on physical therapy because they lowered the budget this year by nearly $1,000. With my new insurance I will have access to physical therapy without any need to “prove improvement” which is impossible for someone like me who has faulty joints, muscle, & tissue. :(

9: How late did you stay up last night?

Three something a.m. 🤪 I was reading!

10: Can you recall the last time you realized you liked someone a lot?

Mmm like 11 years ago when I realized I didn’t want to love them as a friend. ;) And they agreed! 😝😘💋😍✨

[xladymalice]

The bodyswap comic just makes me think even more that the dynamic has this "possess/protect" (Pup) and "manipulate/control" (Black) element to it. Yet even though prolonged sex is painful for Black he still enjoys it... Is it because it's Pup or is he a masochist or both?

Yeah, you could describe the dynamic like that. At least, it’s a visible and clear part of them. (As I stated, I didn’t show all too much about them yet. There is so much more, I don’t even know how to find all the time to put my ideas on paper xD)

Don’t get me and the comic wrong. Black is not always in pain when they do it. Pup prepares him properly or makes sure Black is heavily aroused. In this case, Pup has not once been bottom, but instinctively he summoned the ladypart because of black’s body. As you noticed, Black has taken the form of Pup’s usual ectopart while Pup adapted to Black’s. Pup doesn’t know this kind of pain, that’s why he complains so much. (But he doesn’t mean it all. he did enjoy this little experience xD)

He got used to his brother BUT there is a small thing that other skellies don’t have trouble with. Black’s female part is really delicate. So after reaching a high, he needs in the first minutes of sex a bit of a pause and break. His pearl is easily overstimulated and hurts, if you don’t treat it right. Black knows this best and gives Pup as much time as he needs.

On the other side, Pup knows about this too. In the past, he made the mistake not to give Black enough space, so his lil’ Bro didn’t feel good all the time… at leas tuntil he understood his mistake.

So overstimulation doesn’t work too good on Black at first. But this changes somewhat later into their game!

Still, Black is indeed a bit of a masochist. He doesn’t love pain, but it keeps him excited. It can happen that their lovemaking hurts a bit, so Pup is too rough.If it’s too much, Black does tell him so or Pup notices himself.

It happened, that Pup kind of ignored Black’s pleads, so he makes up with very intense aftercare and healing. Doesn’t mean Black had no fun, but the pain after is not all that nice.

This way, Pup learned that his brother needs even more extra care…. in fact, if Pup had his heat cycle he didn’t worry all that much about Black’s stamina and endurance… xD so maybe he will be less of a jerk, haha.

Pup is a masochist, but he doesn’t seek masochism all the time. He likes teasing, but he doesn’t love to hurt his brother.

There can be little exceptions, buuuut. You will hear about this another time <3