#relationship theory

[jacobboo]

kinger -> gangle is father daughter

kinger -> Ragatha is like... mother friends who needs breaks from their kids

Jax -> ragatha is hate but ragatha is kind enough to forgive Jax everytime

Ragatha -> pomni is the girlfriends

Kinger -> zooble is kid gone punk but father just accepts them

Caine is reckless father who leaves his kids alone too much and is oblivious to their actions

Kinger -> Jax are brothers who aren't that close

[ginandbitters]

So, I reckon Cowley and Shax definitely had a fling at some point and Crowley dumped her because he knew Aziraphale was the only one for him.

Furfur fought next to Crowley in the revolution, but Crowley always finds him annoying. Furfur clearly adores Shax from day 1 in Hell and, despite dumping her, Crowley carries on stringing Shax along just to annoy Furfur.

Shax never showed any romantic interest in Furfur while she still thought her and Crowley had a chance of getting back together. It's why she's running around collecting his post even after he became a traitor. Maybe Crowley has a twinge of guilt which is why he is friendly and meets her to chat about the job, perhaps it's just ongoing malice for Furfur after he tried to frame him and Aziraphale in 1941.

Shax finally realises Crowley actually doesn't care about her and fancies Aziraphale, then she gets really bitchy. She hates Aziraphale because Crowley wants him not her, and tries to get him to back off - tells him that he's not Crowley's type and calls him names "emotional support angel" etc. When she finally realises it's over, faithful old Furfur is there, promoting her in front of the others and standing by her as he always has. She finally accepts his affection and they leave happy...

[dizexplainstheuniverse]

The ABC of Loving Without Possession.

A - Autonomy – Thou shalt not dictate how or with whom thy beloved spends thine own time.

B - Boundaries – Thou shalt not share with others confidential information, details about thy sex life or push any hard limits without prior consent from thy beloved.

C - Consent – Thou shalt always ask for consent from thy beloved and never act on assumptions. Thou shalt communicate to thy beloved any information concerning ones actions which may directly impact thy beloved’s health or boundaries.

D - Dick – Thou shalt not be one.

E - Expression – Thou shalt fully express thine authentic self and be whoever or whatever thy desires without need for permission. (Except in the case of ‘D’)

F - Fun – Thou shalt only stay in a relationship with thy beloved so long as it brings joy to each of them.

G - Grounded – Thou shalt stay grounded, centred and not lose ones individual identity in the relationship with thy beloved.

H - Honesty – Thou shalt always offer the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth to thy beloved. Even the ugly truths.

I - Intimacy – Thou shalt always relate to thy beloved with warmth, compassion and affection, even in disagreements.

J - Judgement – Thou shalt not judge nor criticise thyself or thy beloved.

K - Kindness - Thou shalt be kind, patient and hold space for both thyself and thy beloved at all times.

L - Learning – Thou shalt not ever stop learning, growing and flowing with life and love.

M - Metamours – Thou shalt make an effort to develop healthy relationships with all significant others in thy beloved’s life.

N - New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Thou shalt not make any important or life changing decisions whilst experiencing NRE with thy beloved. (N.B. this energy will usually last around the first 3-6 months)

O - Owning Your Feelings – Thou shalt accept responsibility for ones own feelings and not seek to blame or dump thy feelings onto thy beloved.

P - Projection – Thou shalt not project thy hopes, fears or expectations onto thy beloved but instead thou shalt endeavour to always see thy beloved and thy relationship with clarity, without judgement and without placing thy beloved on a pedestal.

Q - Questions – Thou shalt always ask for what one needs from thy beloved, but thou shalt not expect thy beloved to always fulfil thy needs.

R - Respect – Thou shalt have respect for thyself, thy beloved and every letter of the ABC at all times.

S - Security – Thou shalt give and openly receive reassurance, support and comfort in times of need.

T - Triggers – Thou shalt be aware of and communicate to thy beloved ones emotional triggers, attachment styles and love languages.

U - Uncertainty – Thou shalt not doubt or seek to undermine the integrity of thy beloved.

V - Validation – Thou shalt not seek external validation from thy beloved but instead depend on an internal unconditional love for a sense of belonging.

W - Worthiness – Thou shalt love, forgive, accept and celebrate thyself unconditionally.

X - X-rated – Thou shalt always practice safer-sex protocols to protect the mind, body and soul of thyself and thy beloved.

Y - Yourself – Thou shalt always make a conscious effort to maintain self-awareness and self-development.

Z - Zeitgeist – Thou shalt maintain an awareness that the ABC is not definitive and reflective only of the time that it is written. Thou shalt remember that as one learns, grows and flows with life and love, as does the ABC.

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[imoga-pride]

I need help finding a suiting label for myself. I do not feel any kind of platonic attraction, it's nonexistent for me nor do I want to have a platonic relationship, but I do enjoy things that are considered platonic (hanging out, cuddling, doing things together regularly) and do long for something like this (while still not wanting a platonic relationship). Is there a word for it? I do use apothiplatonic and bellusplatonic but I still feel like these two don't describe me in 100%. I thought of cupioplatonic, but i'm not sure if that's the right call

for cuddling: sensual attraction suffices, right?

doing things together: interpersonal, presential, environmental attraction. it could be either or all of two or at least the first.

hanging out: is it environmental or involving multiple objects and/or subjects? the first, what comes to my mind is going outside and walking around, but could include to go shopping with someone or a fixed social contact of yours, or even multiple people and peoples.

if you need someone regularly in your life, at least less than a care needs supporter, it could be an enduring long-lasting partnership or partnering, or simply having a fixed, but not necessarily exclusive, social contact. having is a hard verb to use, cause we never have people other than ourselves, right? so semantically the society’s vocabulary needs to evolve and transvolution altogether so we have better words to refer to people around us. however, the feeling is still there so you want someone orbiting your life, compulsorily or as a result of the nature urge to communicate around (just like the plants do) or the supernormal stimulus (what makes us deviate from the evolutive principle, which would be surviving and/or reproductive procreation)

[vickispacial1]

the emotional intelligence theory (i have it he doesn't)

[joitotheworldstuff]

Understanding the mirror, door, and window relationship theory

Understanding the mirror, door, and window relationship theory Mirror relationship: You see yourself in another person, and this makes you feel good. You might want to be like that other person or you might want to look like them. For example, if your best friend is a beautiful girl who always looks great. Then it can make you feel better about yourself when you see her doing something amazing…

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[marriagefamilyshareapy]

I am ridiculously happy about getting this book. I have loved this theory of Sternberg’s since I took Sociology of Family in 2016- so much so I wrote my term paper around it. I didn’t buy the book, because I had access to it as an ebook from CCIS. Alas, that ended with graduation, so now I own an in-hand copy :-)

[liampboyle]

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