Jan 17
“For the first time, I understand—
love isn’t the urge to fix someone.
It’s the quiet courage
to sit beside their brokenness,
letting yours breathe beside it,
without fear, without shame.”
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“For the first time, I understand—
love isn’t the urge to fix someone.
It’s the quiet courage
to sit beside their brokenness,
letting yours breathe beside it,
without fear, without shame.”
Point
One thing I will possibly never be able to understand is what makes a loving relationship break up. What I have been realising lately is that break ups are not always caused because feelings decrease but because one of the parties need some space, but the other one is doing nothing but over thinking, another thing which makes it even more confusing for me to understand is how one of the lovers can ignore the other one because they broke up with them ,yet they still claim they love them and think about them but after a long relationship they end it with the 'I don't want a relationship' line, no, the thing that truly happens is the thought of frightfulness, all that person can ever think about is not being able doing something that they would be while they're single, but that's not the case, if someone loves another person there isn't such thing as 'I can't' , there's always a way to work stuff out. If you have any problems in a relationship, you can't let it all go, not all the memories and all the secrets, all the trust and all the fights, arguments happen everywhere but only those who truly believe it can work will remain where they are. The sad truth is, realising what the other person wants, the constant fear of knowing they don't want you, they don't love you, don't want to be with you, what if you start noticing that you never meant anything to them, but hold on,you can't. You did mean something to them at one point and that's the scary thing, can they not love you because you're not good enough? Or simply because you annoy them with the constant messages of wanting them back, what I have to say is simply, never give up on someone who you say you're loving, never give up on someone you spend hour on crying, and don't ever give up on someone who you spent the most amazing memories with, all the smiles and all the amazing times. Maybe some will say yes, best thing is to move on. History repeats itself, if two people love each other and if everyone is able to notice it, then it's meant to be. It's not a case of someone having a part-time relationship. If you changed that person, make them smile even on the thought of you, why should you give up? Never think about the stuff that happened in the past, live in the present. Don't compare them to someone else. they're not anyone else, they're someone who you fell for.
