#relationshipwreck

[vaaniebean]

Proud to say that if I was a crew member on the Revenge I would not have been part of the breakup crew. I have no qualities blackbeard would find useful lmao. Stede would end up with me in the divorce.

[lifeinfreeverse]

Things You’d Rather Not Do

Fly coach

Watch MSNBC

Mow the lawn with a scissors

Drive behind a city bus

Microwave the cat until it reaches a minimum internal temperature of 165 degrees Fahrenheit

Me

[relationshipwrecks]

[ralphmara]

April 18, 2013

1) He/She must want kids.

2) He/She must be a Christian.

3) He/She must want to work in full-time ministry.

4) He/She must love the movie, “The Notebook.”

5) He/She must love taking long walks on the beach.

Sound Familiar?

A list of “non-negotiables” is pretty common in the realm of Christianity. Are they wrong? No. But are they your answer to finding the one? Nope, not even close.

Having a list of what you are looking for in a significant other is great. It means you actually took time to think for a change. But I think there is something way more important than a list that describes your perfect mate.

Can you guess what it is? It’s who you need to be first.

My Point: Focus on being the right person before looking for the right person. Everyone wants to find their future husband or wife, but what everyone needs to realize is that a relationship without God will eventually turn into a relationshipwreck. (clever huh?)

God is more focused on who you are becoming, than who you need to be with. Turn the focus on your heart before trying to gain the love of someone else’s.

Don’t worry: He/She will come when the time is right. But don’t let your impatience ruin your inner-transformation. Seeking God first is always the way to go. He will never stray you wrong.

"Seek the Lord, and his strength: seek his face evermore." - Psalm 105:4

- Jarrid Wilson