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[renafromtheheart]

Rethink Relations👫 #RenaSpeaks

[holigrahm]

Disclaimer: I make fun of my own flaws to get over them. If I can make myself or others laugh about them then life is goochie and I can move on.

Anyways as I continue on this weight loss journey I am coming across some cons I never thought I would encounter in my life ever.

1) Being in the awkward zone of “too small for plus size clothing” but still a little “too big for regular size clothing”

2) I don’t ever know what my true cup size is anymore for my boobs. It’s changes each time when its bra shopping time.

3) When I make fat jokes about myself people used to laugh with me because I was right. Now people just give me looks like they are done with my bullshit.

In the past year or so I’ve lost almost 30lbs unintentionally from my stomach being in bad shape (ulcers, acid reflux, etc), but now that I’m feeling a lot better I’m trying to keep up with the trend... maybe accelerate it even... We’ll see. 👀

[writermcgirl]

I don't think I've felt this shitty on a period in a looooooong time. Let's just hope I can make it through this next week and a half without breaking down 😶

[renafromtheheart]

Stop being reckless fam and prosper!💁 #RenaSpeaks #WisdomWednesday

[renafromtheheart]

#TBT "Out of the Night, into the Morning's Light.. Beyond the Shadows of Doubt.. A Fog of Grace Shall Cover those who Choose the Endurance of Faith. The Sun Shall Shine on such Brave Souls, and thus SHE WILL RISE"💜📷:@kristagene #teamnatural. #RenaSpeaks

[renafromtheheart]

My Cap! I am "Birthed of the Motherland" "Militant Grace". Music & Poetry is my LIFE #RenaSpeaks. John 14:1(the scripture that kept me since childhood) I "Lead, Develop, Advocate" because #BethuneTaughtMe Thus creates "A Powerhouse wrapped in the form of a Woman" ✊🏠🎀💁 #UNCPGRADUATE 💛😭🙈✨

[writermcgirl]

My sociology professor made a very good point. The discussion over Charleston about racism has shifted to talk about the confederate flag. While, yes, I understand that it’s about how the flag is a representation racism promotion, don’t you think that that’s drawing more attention away from the racism front?

[writermcgirl]

Here's a little something I had to learn myself about having abandonment issues: If you're not making an active effort to participate and be involved, then when your friends and other people go off on their own you're not being left - you're the one who doesn't want to go. If your friends go without you or go somewhere else it doesn't mean that they don't like you or that they can't stand you or that you shouldn't exist or ANYTHING. Have a little bit more faith in those close to you - your real friends will be by your side when you need them and will love you still. (Note- this doesn't mean it's your fault when shit happens. It means that you have some power over what and how much effects you- taking these two things into account can make you feel much better! For me, it helped me fight the feeling that I was a bother and that it'd be better if I wasn't alive. I still have those, but it's much less than before and I can actually be happy and I enjoy things now and miss out on those friend events less. :) It's not a cure, but it helps me. I hope it helps you, too.)