#abandonment issues

[1r0n-lungadd1ct]

Life is good:3

[ @vaguelyhumorousbeans ]

[ofcutsandoffire]

"how could you possible see that as abandon—" because thats how abandonment issues fucking work??? just bc you don't understand it doesn't mean that my feelings aren't valid??

[veltroxx]

funny how patience is rewarded with disappointment. but at least the waiting room has good company-abandonment issues.

[basicnutrients1]

Abandonment Issues

[thejohnlockedfemboy]

apparently it’s not normal and points to something called abandonment issues when you constantly tell your friends “thank you for putting up with me/thank you for talking to me/thank you for being my friend/please don’t be mad at me”

hmm…

[inkrips]

Abuse and Abandonment

Abandonment feels like a slap in the face. Recent stories of people passing after being abandoned, secluded or alienated has me empathizing. Flashbacks to that one time in Palm Springs 😭 sometimes we're slapped and other times we slap ourselves. Self abandonment makes it hard to trust the company of others. Abandonment, to me, feels like denial and denial feels like abuse. Denying light's truth to live in a closet of dark heteronormativity as if abandoning gay truths to tend to straight lies lol. The truth opens doors and sets us free. Some things need to be left alone, some things need space to heal or grow. Thankfully empathy, care and concern help quell abusive blows of greed, carelessness and abandonment.

May you know love that values presence because without presence love is missing.

[jiraipinkman]

I hope my ex friends who abandoned me, talked about me, and secretly didn't like me behind my back suffer through everything I've been through, but way worse and with none of the memory issues. I want them constantly aware of the pain they're in 24/7 and in agony. THAT'S what you get, that's what you deserve!!!

[ofcutsandoffire]

what scares me is the last time that one friend had issues with me, she pretended like everything was normal for a WEEK until I had to ask her abt if everything was good between us (cuz our other friend had told me she told her that she was mad at me) THEN she confronted me, so if that other girl hadn't idk how long she would've pretended everything was fine. ppl who avoid confrontation are genuinely so so so awful, just tell me what I did wrong and stop being fake to my face.