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Having moots/friends who don’t post too much reportable content, so that they stay my friend longer and don’t get randomly nuked on a Tuesday morning and never speak to me again. PLEASE
Life is good:3
[ @vaguelyhumorousbeans ]
"how could you possible see that as abandon—" because thats how abandonment issues fucking work??? just bc you don't understand it doesn't mean that my feelings aren't valid??
funny how patience is rewarded with disappointment. but at least the waiting room has good company-abandonment issues.
Abandonment Issues
apparently it’s not normal and points to something called abandonment issues when you constantly tell your friends “thank you for putting up with me/thank you for talking to me/thank you for being my friend/please don’t be mad at me”
hmm…
Abuse and Abandonment
Abandonment feels like a slap in the face. Recent stories of people passing after being abandoned, secluded or alienated has me empathizing. Flashbacks to that one time in Palm Springs 😭 sometimes we're slapped and other times we slap ourselves. Self abandonment makes it hard to trust the company of others. Abandonment, to me, feels like denial and denial feels like abuse. Denying light's truth to live in a closet of dark heteronormativity as if abandoning gay truths to tend to straight lies lol. The truth opens doors and sets us free. Some things need to be left alone, some things need space to heal or grow. Thankfully empathy, care and concern help quell abusive blows of greed, carelessness and abandonment.
May you know love that values presence because without presence love is missing.
I hope my ex friends who abandoned me, talked about me, and secretly didn't like me behind my back suffer through everything I've been through, but way worse and with none of the memory issues. I want them constantly aware of the pain they're in 24/7 and in agony. THAT'S what you get, that's what you deserve!!!