Wish someone had told me this a hundred years ago. "Blue balls" is frustration more than pain and if someone dares pressure you with it you shpuld probably not ever spesk to them again. They'll get over it. And, you reserve the right to change your mind no matter how far into foolery you are. Your partner has that same right. Say no if you want to and never, ever feel bad about doing it. #no #assertyourself #sexpositive #feminist #pressure #takemyadvice #strength #love #sexploration #loveyourself #respectyourself #respectyourpartner








