Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. - Coco Chanel Here's a truth I wish more people understood: you can't change someone who doesn't see an issue with their actions. I hear girlfriends saying "I can change him". What? Does he wear a diaper? No! YOU CANNOT CHANGE ANYBODY WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE CHANGED. I'll say it another way: you can love someone with everything you have, but until they WANT to make a change in their life, your love will never be enough. You will always be beating on that wall, hoping to transform it into a door and all you'll have to show for it is wasted time, a lot of frustration and probably more than a little anger. Respect yourself. Stop trying to love the red flags out of people. It's not going to work. #RespectYourself #RedFlags #SelfLove #Wisdom #Advice #MomTalk #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #TexasGirl #Over40 #GenX #Follow #Influencer https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc_sJsdln_w/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=