#response to hate

[emotionalsupportgoblin420]

Just FYI, just because I like Harry Potter doesn't mean I support JK Rowling. I just like the books. It's not my fault the author is so nasty okay? Good Lord, why do I even have to say this? Do you think every trans person who enjoys Harry Potter hates themselves? The logic isn't logic-ing fellas

[thermickey]

Response to hate & Tao shit [scroll by if don’t want to read]

I’d like to take a small moment to apologize to those of you who, are here and genuinely happy to see my posts or art. This is not directed at you; and there won’t be anymore coming afterwards. Thanks for being supportive and happy! - Rii

You won’t see the wrong you’re doing to me.

I don’t know how to tell you people that, bashing someone for their choice is wrong. I said I was unsure of my support towards Tao; I even said it would take time for him to get to me again. I never said something nasty about him; all I stood on was, how his actions should’ve been chosen carefully. He could’ve told his fans that he was going whatever route he is going. Not just throw a solo out there; how am I and others that think like me, supposed to feel?

I’m tired of the long messages holding things like,

“You’re a horrible fan! You support Han but not Tao. They are the same.”

“You’re just jealous that he’s making more money than you’ll ever have.”

“You’re a bitch, and Tao is an angel.”

“I hope you never draw again; nobody needs a fake artist like you”

There are more than that; but these ones cut me deeper than I expected. There are several people that support all three, some that only support one or none of them. I took a break from Kris after he left! That hurt my feelings a lot! Han is my ultimate bias, and he said what he was doing, handled it and is still working on improving. They are not the same, I didn’t like the way Kris left, and I am not too happy how Tao is or did. I am a person that dislikes confusion; Tao and Kris both left me in confusion; Tao a little more than Kris. 

I know what it is like, to starve, be cold, be sick and tough through harsher things. Jealous of some 22 year old that I don’t know? Why on earth would I be jealous of someone that can’t do what I can do? I don’t want to do what he does. I’d rather draw, write, Compose, Play a new instrument, make people smile and improve my photography skills. Than sit behind a computer, praising something that’ll get you nowhere. Don’t ever mock me again! 

Fine, I guess i’m a bitch for asking, about his official statement and sm’s statement. Because I said that sm had the right to block his mv, due to legal things. Because I for one don’t have the emotional capacity to draw him anymore. Wow, thanks; all I want to do is live, and make others happy or inspired.

Wishing something that ugly, is the reason you’re not happy. I don’t know how doing what I do can be considered fake. Me never drawing again, is like you never meeting me. Please take your anger out with a therapists.

AND LORD FORBID I SAY TAO IS NOT MY BIAS! *fans steaming  fans* you want me to tease and mock you too? You want to know what it’s like to wake up, and thinking it’s questions; to see filth! Try being a person who fought to survive, try to make your parents happy, but all they do is belittle you TRY! So the next time your so as dip your toe in my water again; i’m going to hulk everything. Got that! 

I’m done, I don’t give a shit about anything regarding this mess he created anymore. Stop talking to me about it, and like I said if you come at me sideways again, I will deep fry your ass. 

[allofmylovetess]

Ok. Time for another mini-rant. 

I've been dealing with a whole hell of a lot of bullshit, that no person should have to deal with, in my personal life and I've been trying hard to not let it come into my interactions online because it's my shit to deal with, not yours.

This is where people who are my kind, wonderful, respectful friends and followers can stop reading because you're amazing and the next part is for the problematic ones. They want attention, and here it is... the only attention they will get from this blog.

I've been getting a good deal of people that are following me, lying in wait, to enact some form of immature bullshit on me as if I am some kind of uneducated fuckwit and I am just so sick of it!

The death threats ending up in my personal email account and asks have stopped, which is nice, so thanks. I also appreciate people's ability to courageously and publicly show their callous nature toward me in reblog comments, but I've said it before, and I'll say it again, I am not allowing your vile nature to poison my blog. This is your response. This is your warning.

You are entitled to your opinion of me, but honestly, if you're going to disregard my personal posts to make an insensitive joke, or treat any lack of knowledge on my part as if it was a personal fucking attack on you, and react as such, I will block/ignore you.

I ended all contact with a family member and disowned him when he used my loss of a friend in the Aurora shootings (he made his essay public the following morning, and less than 4 hours after my friend's body was recovered after a night of none of us knowing where he was, as he was deemed missing presumed dead), insensitively and unapologetically, in his political dissertation, so I have no problem doing so to you, a person I have a much less personal connection with.

I currently have a very short fuse when it comes to these things, so, if you're planning a personal attack, please do so now to save us all the time and effort, or just unfollow me.

You have one shot to make your attacks before I block you. Make it good.

[lapopoppa]

I am completely sick and tired of how society has come to face issues. When a fellow human being who has made a few mistakes here and there is down, we don't help them anymore, we just laugh at them. This needs to stop and I really hope this video can send a good message to the world.

LET'S STOP HATING EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE, PEOPLE, GO EAT SOME ICE CREAM AND TALK ABOUT ALL THE GOODS THINGS THAT ARE HAPPENING AROUND YOU, NOT ALL THE BAD THINGS!

Thanks to those, in advance, who watch the video. (:

[finniks-sugar-cubes]

Differences in response to Hate

Tumblr Famous People: omg you are just jealous,  wow I'm so hot and popular  f u.

Me: yep pretty much. I'm gonna go eat a whole cake...fml

[seasonalcravings]

Miley Cyrus

Sometimes I really feel bad for Miley. She obviously lost her cool and doesn’t know how to deal with a lot of things she’s going through. If you actually listen to her song “Wrecking Ball” she’s telling everyone that she’s hurt. Yes, people may think she’s trash, but I give her respect because she does things so daring and edgy that society writes her off as slutty and out of control. But people just think that way because women were taught to hide themselves, to refuse desire, to be inferior, and to believe that anyone that shows their body is a whore. Yes, there is an extent to showing your body, BUT Miley is just wearing clothes SHE LIKES and being self expressive. And she is criticized for everything.. the way she dresses, the songs she sings, and the things she does. Society tells you to be yourself and then judges you anyway. I believe Miley is either trying to be herself or cry out for help, but either way, everyone should just leave her alone.

[smokinniall-blog]

Preference #8: A Fans Insults You in Person

Niall:

You were out with Danielle, Eleanor, and Perrie for a girls day. You were, admittedly the new girl in fans eyes. I mean, yeah, you and Niall had been dating for a few months, but the fans just now heard. A group of three girls had recognized the four of you, and came running over. They got pictures and autographs from Perrie, Eleanor, and Danielle, but not you. “Sorry, but we kinda hate you. No offense or anything.” You were a bit surprised at how blatantly she had said that. You looked her straight in the eye and said, ”Love you too!” Then walked away, Perrie, Danielle, and Eleanor walking away.

Your reaction:

Liam:

You had been dating Liam for several months now, but a lot of fans still weren’t very fond of you. I take that back, no sugar coating it, they hated your guts. You got hate online, but never to your face. Then, one day while out with Liam, a fan said that you were ugly, to Liam. She clearly didn’t see you. “That’s rude, she is beautiful. Also, she is right there.” Liam said and pointed to you. She walked over to you and acted like she was your biggest fan. “I heard what you said, and I don’t appreciate it.” You said calmly, and walked away with Liam.You didn’t say anything to Liam, but he knew it hurt you.

You reaction:

Harry:

You walked into Starbucks with y/f/n and walked into line. You ordered 2 White Mocha Frappuccino, one for you, one fore y/f/n. The two of you walked over to a table and sat down. You were soon confronted by a "fan" of One Direction. "Hi!" You said cheerfully. "Stay away from my man! Seriously, nobody likes you. Just take a hint and get away from Harry." You weren't totally sure how to respond. You never payed any attention to hate, but you couldn't ignore it when it's in person. You didn't want to be rude, no matter how mean she was. It would hurt your reputation and earn you even more hate. So, you decided to be the bigger person. "I'm sorry if you liked Harry, but if he asked you out, you would say yes. We love each other and no amount of hate will tear us apart, so please just be happy for us." She stormed off, knowing she had lost. "Y/N! Nice job! Show that bitch who's boss!" Y/f/n cheered.

Your Reaction:

Zayn:

"Really, Zayn? Your always late!" Zayn was running late to your date, yet again. "Fine, I'll check in. But hurry up, I don't want to awkwardly sit in the restaurant this time." You hung up and walked into the restaurant and was given your table.  "Hi, I'm Janice I'll be your wai-...wait aren't you Y/N? Zayn Malik's girlfriend." Your waitress asked, rather rudely. You didn't have the best temper, and the fact that you were frustrated with  Zayn didn't make it any better. "Yeah, I am. Why do you care?" You said offensively. "Just because your a slut. My cousins friend went to school with you. He knows you slept around with basically every guy in your school." Well, somebody isn't getting a tip. You stood up and walked over to the manager, telling him how insulting she was to you. Let's just say her tables were given to a different waitress-permanently.

Your Reaction:

Louis:

You are pretty much accepted by directioners, but you got the occasional hater. One day, you were at the park with your niece, just sitting on the bench while she plays with a few neighbor kids. "Wait, it's Y/N isn't it? You really shouldn't be wearing shorts, it's a hazard. Wouldn't want anybody going blind from trying to get that image out of their head." You laughed a bit obnoxiously, not purposely. You were definitely a skinny girl. You were the newest Victoria's Secret Angel. "I'm sorry, but that doesn't hurt me. I actually respect and love myself, and Louis so does Louis. On a totally unrelated note, cute shoes!" The girl spun on her heels and walked over to her little sister on the swings. You spent the rest of the day hanging out with your niece.

Your reaction:

Finally got a preference up after a few days...back to a preference every night now. If you want to request, read HERE and then send me a message with that information and I will add it to my list!