rocketdocket replied to your post “so what's pushed you to start fetishising rbron ?”
�������� Alex, you're the last person I would ever think of to be "fetishizing" a mlm ship. Has this person even been on your blog??? You're constantly writing about and critiquing the show and the fandom and its biphobia, treatment of women, and homophobia. And most recently??? You've written about how much you disagree with Rob's choices. Your blog is not filled with how hot you think they are together, or how much you need them to kiss/have sex again, or.... the list goes on.
You also don't baby or uwu the characters either. You hold Robert responsible for his shit. You hold Aaron responsible for his shit. I'm??? Asks like this frustrate me so much bc it's as if nobody wants anyone to watch or support a mlm ship at all bc they're "fetishizing" them. ALEX IS BI ANON. And an awesome bi advocate. Maybe that's a little why she, idk, is invested in one of the FEW BISEXUAL CHARACTERS ON SCREEN???? ok bye
Anna!!! Thank you so much, you’re so sweet. And like. I don’t feel like putting my hands up and being like “oh, me? I could never, I would never” because I think every woman in fandom has to examine her own behavior when it comes to mlm ships at some point or another. I’m more than willing to do my homework on this and take a hard look at myself. I think, and people are more than allowed to disagree with me on this, that the aim of calling someone out for problematic behavior is to minimize as much as possible the harm done to people from a marginalized communities. The problem, for me, was that the anon just sent that, but didn’t give me anything to work with.
And, you know, I’m always open to have a conversation about the ways I mess up and to apologize. But this... wasn’t really a conversation.
