I finally did something today that I’ve been considering for months. I bought a mobility aid.
After a short shopping trip (that was meant to cheer me up) that almost resulted in me fainting in the middle of the store (thankfully I was able to sit in a chair they had for sale, though I’m not sure if that was technically allowed), I broke down in my car and started looking at mobility aid stores nearby, and somehow there was one literally around the corner.
It took me a minute to gather the courage to actually go inside once I’d parked. I was so scared that whoever was in there would look at me, a 24 year old seemingly healthy person, and assume I was just messing around or not take me seriously.
When I went in, I started stuttering out what I was looking for and the sales lady looked at me and asked, “Do you need a hug?”. I gratefully accepted and cried a few tears and then was able to tell her what I was looking for and what I needed it for.
She did a wonderful job explaining the differences in their rollators and which ones she recommended and why she recommended them over the others. I ended up leaving with a mid-range priced one that I will be able to put in my car unassisted even on bad days.
I still have mixed emotions about needing a mobility aid at 24, but I’m incredibly proud of myself for finally taking the leap and getting something that I know will help me so much in every day life.
If you’re thinking about getting a mobility aid, I want you to know that it’s ok. It’s ok to get one if you’re 15,25, or 105. If you need it, if it will improve your life even a little bit, get it.
The main thing my friend said to me while I was considering one was this: “People who don’t need mobility aids don’t think about getting them”. Able bodied people do not think about how much better their life would be with one.
So, if you’re able, get that cane. Get that walker. Get that wheelchair, those forearm crutches, whatever you need (just make sure you’re choosing the right option for your disabilities!). It will be worth it.
