It makes my heart so happy to see all the romantic aces that showed out in the comment section of our latest TikTok! 🖤🩶🤍💜

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It makes my heart so happy to see all the romantic aces that showed out in the comment section of our latest TikTok! 🖤🩶🤍💜
1:32 AM: Oh my god, I talked to my ex boyfriend (now ex-gf, going to be said why later) from a year ago and apologize to how I acted back then and how I am changed and hopefully we can stay friends, and she told me that we're fine! And also that she is now a Transgender! And also, a Panromantic Asexual! Isn't weird? This is the first time I have known someone who is also my sexual orientation now that I have came out! I'm sorry happy to see another dear girl to be like me! And we came into terms about us being friends now, but seriously, I am so happy to find another Ace!
Also, I made a Panromantic coloured bracelet!
And realize, that my favourite top (because it is long sleeved, black, elastic, and long) has the pan color too!
I'm just absolutely happy for no reason, I feel like I am being myself freely, I love this!
If you’re a romantic ace and use an uncommon term to describe your romantic attraction, you’re awesome and I hope you have a great day!
Shoutout to all the romantic aces out there who long to be in a relationship but are too scared to try to get involved with anyone because they’re worried about how their asexuality will affect the relationship.
Shoutout to all the romantic aces out there who are currently putting themselves through a relationship in which they don’t feel fully accepted because the romantic part of them wants so badly to just be with someone.
You deserve someone who will respect that you’re asexual and will never make you feel bad or guilty about it. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who will never overstep your boundaries or try to guilt you into something you don’t want to do. You deserve to never have to settle.
Don’t settle. You’re better than that.
Shoutout to all of the romantic aces out there who struggle with anxiety triggered by romantic situations like dating or talking to someone you have feelings for.
I know it’s hard. I know it’s scary. I know it’s hard to enjoy anything that’s happening because you’re so anxious about it all. I know that your asexuality makes it that much more complicated because you’re worried about being rejected or invalidated by someone you really care about.
You deserve to be loved. You deserve someone who’s going to accept you for exactly who you are. You deserve someone who’s going to pay attention to your needs and work with you to make sure you’re both happy. If the person you’re with right now can’t deal with your asexuality, they aren’t the right person for you, and their inability to accept you says more about them than you. Keep trying. There are people out there who will love and cherish us just the way we are.
Don’t give up hope.
Mod Confession 1
Every once in awhile I get a strange panicky feeling; I am getting older and most people have fallen in love at least once by the time they were my age. What if it never happens for me? What if my ace-ness is always a deal breaker? What if I just never feel that way towards anyone and miss out on it completely? Most of the time I know I'm being ridiculous, that I will find love, that I am lovable, that even now maybe someone loves me, but sometimes my ace-heart isn't so brave.
Clowns and Cake
A friend once told me that falling in love with me was like being invited to a party with no cake. Little does he know how much aces love cake... Our love is a party, with all manner of goodies. Maybe just the clown that makes some people uncomfortable isn't invited.