I'm glad that I found this page because it helped me understand my gender identification. I was on the edge of identifying as agender simply because Ive been told to "stop trying to be different" but I haven't for the longest time understood gender at all. I accept other peoples gender but have zero ability to know how to apply it to myself.
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this was really fucking creepy and not okay and oh my god it was just no
please read it if you know me and live in my area because i think you should know about this
so i went to the library this afternoon and as i was leaving this black guy started following me and kept saying, "hey, miss! can i talk to you for a minute?"
of course i said no because that's fucking creepy but he kept following me and there weren't many places for me to go, so i just walked to my car and got in and locked the doors
the problem was that i was parked along the curb so he could just stand by my car on the driver side and he could block me from driving away, which he did
i rolled down my window a little bit (only enough to be able to tell him to move) and the following ensued:
him: "hey i just wanted to tell you that you're a very beautiful girl"
me: "okay. can you please move?" (freaking out)
him: "hey hey hey, do you smoke?"
me: "no." (freaking out more)
him: "oh okay. do you drink?"
me: "no." (holy shit this is creepy)
him: "ahhh so you're a good girl."
me: "i guess. can you move?" (seriously thinking about calling 911)
him: "do you have a boyfriend?"
me: "no." (lying in an attempt to get him to go away)
him: "ohh is he black or white or...?"
me: "i don't see how that has any relevance." (about to start my car and start driving because holy shit)
him: "oh okay. so i live right around the corner and i was wondering if i could get a ride?"
me: "no."
him: "there's no way i could?"
me: "no."
him: "okay. well i hope you have a nice day."
me: "thank you."
and finally he moved and i drove away and that was a fucking scary experience man like holy shit
i ended up going over to starbucks and chilling there for like 45 minutes and talking to people i knew because i needed to calm down and now i'm much calmer but if you live in my area (u kno who u are) and a black guy comes up to you and starts talking to you please please please get to a public place with lots of people or get in a car and drive away because that was not okay
romanticcufflinks replied to your photo: LOOK AT HOW THICK THIS CHOCOLATE IS
you look so shocked
LET ME TELL YOU A STORY
THIS CHOCOLATE BAR WAS IN THE FRIDGE FOR A FEW DAYS
THE CHOCOLATE ITSELF IS MORE THAN AN INCH THICK AND THE LITTLE GROOVES ON IT WERE NO DEEPER THAN 1/16 OF AN INCH
SO WITH LEVERAGE AND PHYSICS WORKING AGAINST ME BREAKING IT WAS THE HARDEST THING IN THE WORLD; I HAD TO PUT IT AGAINST THE EDGE OF A TABLE AND PUSH DOWN WITH ALL MY STRENGTH TO BREAK IT. AFTER ABOUT A GOOD 10 MINUTES I HAD IT DOWN TO A 4-PIECE BLOCK BUT I DIDN'T HAVE THE STRENGTH TO BREAK IT DOWN ANYMORE; I WOULD BE ABLE TO SPLIT AN ATOM WITH MY BARE HANDS BEFORE I BROKE THAT CHOCOLATE APART, SO I HAD TO TAKE IT ALL WITH ME AND EAT IT