It's a dumb question; but how do you manage to enjoy and love a character that is clearly the fandom's punching bag and butt of the jokes? It's been slightly an odd experience for me, but as much as I try to avoid negativity... it's kinda hard to ignore.
This isn't a dumb question at all, Anon!! So don't worry lol
This is something that I have a relatively easy time dealing with because I simply ✨️don't care✨️ that people have bad takes bc people are entitled to their wrong opinion lmao. And most times I don't like interacting with fandoms because of issues like the negativity and stuff you mentioned. I've had my handful of obnoxious morons who would not let jokes and stuff rest🙄
I've learned that if I enjoy/love a character that isn't exactly beloved or they're always just some punching bag to the fandom, most times it's because there's a mischaracterization or misinterpretation of the character (from what I've noticed most times) or that the character does/doesn't fit into some cliché archetype. And most times when the jokes are overdone, it's just out of disrespect anyways so it's just white noise with really no substance.
Ofc every character is subject to criticism of their actions/writing and stuff, and that's always valid. I think every fictional character should be analyzed and dissected bc it's fun and it can lead to a better understanding of story/writing/character etc. But there's always a fine line between being playful and just being an ass.
Really, it's up to you how you can ignore the negativity, it'll always be there, but it shouldn't effect how much you enjoy a character. You like that character for reasons that are unique to you, and your expiriences. They're special to you, and no idiot on the internet or whatever should dictate that. And if a fandom as a whole treats your blorbo like a punching bag bc of shits and giggles, they can stfu🥰
But that's just my take on it.