Respect nonsharers. most nonsharers are neurodivergent, traumatized, human beings, they are nonsharing because of possibly attachment issues, trauma, disorders, anything! If im missing why youre nonsharing, tell me in the reblogs :3
Yes nonsharers are allowed to see their f/os as real people!!! Irl aroace people exist, fictoromantic/fictosexual people exist!! With real lives!! As long as its not making said nonsharers life worse, but only boosting their own self image and helping them survive in life. Let them be!!! <3
It is only the SPEC of a portion of nonsharers that are horrible to doubles. when you just need to block and move on. nonsharers want respect, peace and love for our beloveds. We will never accept harrassers in this community.
Yes we make jokes about our protectiveness, our possessiveness but actual good respectful nonsharers will NEVER send actual hate towards doubles. Just block and move on.
Saying how "well if youre so triggered then why are you joining said things that include ships of your nonsharing f/o"
Not all nonsharers will interact with the fandom. Heck, rarely sometimes.
So let me introduce, BEING CRITICAL WITH THE MEDIA OF YOUR F/O YOU CONSUME TO PROTECT YOUR MIND AND HEALTH! ASWELL AS BOUNDARIES!
No nonsharer is the same, we will never will be. It's up to the selfshipper themselves at the end of the day, its their decision to consume media of their f/o however they like, groups, fanart, etc. Whatever makes them feel most comfortable.
I'm not done however, when it comes to sharing a space with nonsharers, for the love of anything, be respectful. You're allowed to ask questions if you're respectful and kind, yes. If you don't want nonsharers in said group? Make it known so no BOUNDARIES are broken. We have dnis to make our personal bubbles most comfortable and to avoid any issues. Its called boundaries for a reason.
Nonsharers are real human beings behind a screen struggling with their own issues, using fiction as a coping mechanism (that ISN'T causing REAL HARM OUTSIDE of the internet) to heal wounds. If you use your own coping mechanism that isn't selfship, why can't they have their own? Hm? Make it make sense. They didn't give two crackers for what you cope with, get your undies out your arse.
You're going to have to live with that.
