Advice for Unhealthy Sagittarius
Advice for Unhealthy Sagittarius
Advice for Unhealthy Sagittarius
Now, I’m not saying he was unhealthy BECAUSE he was a Sagittarius. He just grew up in an unhealthy environment, and just happened to BE a Sagittarius.
1.Too Care-Free
He would do the most reckless impulses for a good time/story.
Most of his stories were very illegal-but-never-caught.
He would be told what do a few dozen times, then he wouldn’t think twice about it and go do his own thing.
He would adventure out to foriegn countries with little money and just his random burst of hope.
He would forget to take care of every living thing around him.
2. Non-Committal
Even though he stated he had a girlfriend, we were flirting hard core within minutes.
He would joke with me how he was the guy who sent hey boo to every girl in his contacts, for just fun and make them feel good.
He would check out every girl and got infatuated with every single one.
No pets, no kids, nothing holding him back from independence.
3. Can’t Face Unhappiness
He would always be thinking about his next adventure, instead of if he was doing emotionally well, like, at all.
He would make a joke about anything that was unpleasent.
When somebody was upset, he didn’t understand how they couldn’t just cheer up.
He would use anything fun to distract himself from relationship, work or family issues.
He would never have a serious talk with his girlfriend unless drunk.
4. Super Preachy
He always has something to say back to every fact, questioning even something supported by a thousand+1 facts.
He would play devil’s advocate during drunken party debates, egging on any disagreements.
He thought anybody who didn’t think his way, wasn’t “enlightened”.
Whenever he would discover something new, he treated everyone like only he knew anything about that topic.
He always had a comment back to get in the last word.
He NEVER believed he was wrong in any argument or debate.
You guys are fun, adventurous, optimistic, joking, glass-half-full, entertaining people I’ve ever met.
1. You love to have a good time, but somethings you need to look before you leap. You have this incridble luck that saves you, but first you need to save yourself. People love your fun side, but we woud be devistated if wrong-place-wrong-time ruined anything well you had going for you. We want to see you succeed, which doesn’t mean life is all fun and games. Yes, you can play hard after you guys work (very, I might add) hard, but you need to draw the line between fun, and doing just doing any dare you dared yourself to do for a good story. If you don’t have the craziest story to tell us, the way you tell anything can make anybody laugh and feel like everything is great.
2. You guys are the lonely wolf roamer, that can easily entertain themselves. Anyone or anything that slows down your good times or even makes you feel like you don’t have the choice of a good time = anxiety. Sometimes, things in life are worth the sacrifice. A part of growing is learning that to have a friend, you need to be a friend. To have a girlfriend, you need to be a boyfriend. You can be the sweetest, most spontanious, caring boyfriend. You need to find somebody who matches your independence, and if somebody is a little more attached than you are, make sure to express your unhappy emotions to them, but reassure them with that genuine fun love you hold for them. Remind them even though you wonder away, that doesn’t mean your love and committment does too. Let people know the more space you get, the more love you give.
3. There’s always room for your optimistic point of view of life, but sometimes people need to be sad. Sometimes people just need an ear to listen to, vent, and just hear you say you care, instead of making a joke ingnoring any unpleasent feelings around you. Anybody who’s not in party mode, is somebody that you can’t understand. You take the punches and let the good times roll. As much as your humor and upbeat words can save people, sometimes brooding and a good cry can make people feel just as good as a good laugh. Not everybody is in the mood for your amazing humor, but if you turn on your caring side and not joking side, you can help people think much more positively in some dark times.
4. You guys read, travel, listen and ask questions. For those who love to learn, you are their best friend. You know how to explain something with such animation, that it’s hard not to enjoy what you have to teach. We don’t want to hear your opinions about every little detail we might not have covered in our first forming opinion, but sometimes you can scare people off from wanting to express their own opinion. You do have the foot-in-your-mouth curse, but you genuienly feel awful afterwards and need to cheer them up. When you preach about how you were wrong, that’s something nobody ever dislikes hearing. You’ve got a huge range of topics you are very indepth about, but wait for people to ask before you lay it on them.
You guys are optimistically entertaining and I hope you know I understand.
Take care all Sagittarius!
Stay entertaining!
