antishifters dni pls <3
this might be a hot take but i will never understand why some shifters despise other shifters who have “same s/o dni!!” in their bio.. like are we deaduzz?
they are not obligated to talk to u just bc u have the same significant other and u wanna rave abt them
i feel like some ppl who get mad at this don’t actually view their s/o’s as ppl yet (not saying this is true, that’s just how it looks to me)
imagine if u were walking down the street with ur partner and then someone comes up to u and is like “OH MY GOSH THIS IS MY PARTNER TOO, CAN WE TALK ABT THEM??”… would u not be a little uncomfy/jealous 😭
just bc it’s not happening in this reality doesn’t make it any less real
they are not weird or insecure just bc they don’t wanna talk to u abt their PARTNERR that they kiss and get frisky with and that they might even have kids with!!
u can probably find someone else with the same s/o who’s okay with talking abt it… so why attack the ones who aren’t
they are not insane.. yes someone said they’re insane
and no i am not defending the ppl who go around purposefully attacking people with the same s/o. IIII am talking abt the ones who just have a boundary in their bio
anyways i probs have more to say but that’s all i can think of. personally, i don’t have “same s/o dni” in my bio bc i made my own s/o up and idek what he looks like yet soooo yeah but i completely respect anyone who does have that boundary cus like.. why would i care. if u disagree then uh okay cool for u but i don’t see why.
ok toodles!