#sarahfasha

[uhohmarty]

oh, she actually meant it 

[martin23fuck]

Hi baby

[sarahfasha]

A man has always wanted to lay me down but he never wanted to pick me up. - Eartha Kitt

[sarahfasha]

Is the girl (22F) I’m (28M) dating a gold digger/scammer?

Below this reddit post you will see my reply. Enjoy.

Hey guys, I saw this girl on instagram who I didn’t know. I decided to shoot my shot and DM her. She responds and doesn’t really show much interest but she still responds to my messages. She later in the conversation told me that she was hungry so I offered to ubereats her some food. It ended up totaling to $40 with taxes/tip.

The conversation continues and I ask her if she would be interested in dating and she said yes. We were talking about turn ons and she says she gets “wet when people spend money/spoil her.”

She says she has a son but I don’t even know if that’s true. Lately she has been asking for so much money. She doesn’t have a job so she uses that as an excuse. We were getting ready to meet up for the first time a few weeks ago and I had already sent her over $600 through cash app.

I also sent her $200 to book an Airbnb for us so we could spend the night together and she took the money and didn’t even book it. When we met, I had to spend another $225 to book a room.

We did have sex that night for the first time meeting and she says she likes me and misses me when we aren’t together but she also asks for money all the time. I spent $700 on her ($300 on some Jordan shoes and $400 at Tiffany’s diamond store).

Since the time we first met two weeks ago, I’ve sent her another $1500 in transactions of $50-200 each time. When I say I can’t send her more money till we meet again, she says stuff like “I need the help. How could you do this to me? Why are you being so stingy?”

We are supposed to meet tomorrow and I just sent her another $200 for an Airbnb which she AGAIN took from me and didn’t book it like she promised. She already spent the money because she “needed it.”

I’ve asked her what we will do tomorrow since now we have no room and she said “we will be fine.” She’s most likely going to get me to book another Airbnb and spend another $200+ to do it.

Does she actually have feelings for me? I’m confused. We had sex and I got emotionally attached to her but I think she’s using me for money.

In total I’ve sent her about $3000 in less than a month of knowing her and I’ve only met her once. All of this money is coming from my savings ($50k) which I was going to use to buy a house.

Can someone give me some advice? What should I do?

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Hey guys, this guy saw me on IG and DM'd me to shoot his shot. He was short with me but still responds. He told me he was horny and wanted a sexy pic so I sent it to him.The conversation continues and he asks me if i would be interested in dating and he said yes. We were talking about turn ons and he says he gets “hard when women spoil him sexually" Lately he has been asking for so much sex. We were getting ready to meet up for the first time a few weeks ago. When we met, he spent $225 to book a room. We did have sex that night for the first time meeting and he says he likes me and misses me when we aren’t together but he also asks for sex all the time. Since the time we first met two weeks ago, I’ve sent him a lot of nudes. When I tell him no, he gaslights me and says I don't really like him and that I am being stingy and why can't I be more open minded, and what I won't do another girl will.Does he actually have feelings for me? I’m confused. We had sex and I got emotionally attached to him but I think he's using me for sex. He's only the second guy I have ever been with but he seems to never be satisfied sexually and I don't want to lose him. Can someone give me some advice? What should I do?

So she is doing what men do to women ALL THE TIME. It is on them to recognize game. Good for her being 22 & recognizing that all this guy wanted at least initially is sex & let's be honest, that's the only reason he spent a dime on her because he wanted to smash. She just flipped the script on him. He prolly only got emotionally attached because she played hard to get & was so elusive, that made him like her more. Come on, we have all been there when we wanted someone even more bc we couldn't have them. That's also toxic but most of us, including myself have been guilty for falling for this mind fuck.

On the other hand, people in the comments seem ignorant & inexperienced. There is no compassion for what this guy is going through. She gaslit him & said all the right things to get him to "put out" financially, sending sexy messages. She knew how to work him. He just never encountered someone like her & prolly never even knew women can do this. So just like the girl in the scenario above was ignorant, you shouldn't shame them for not knowing better. A lot of people have to learn these experiences only through experience because NO ONE tells them about the hustle. Weather is getting sex or getting money.

She is doing her just like the guy in my scenario was doing him. I am not saying either is right or wrong, it's just a dog eat dog world - especially in your twenties. Dating is a fuckin jungle out there, predators & prey, PERIOD. Who is to say that if she didn't ask him for a dime, he wouldn't have just smashed & gotten over her right away because she was "too easy"??? She is doing it right, in regards to protecting herself and getting what she wants out of the deal. bc if she actually does decide to commit to him one day, he will be on his toes bc he will know she will be ready to walk anytime & what another man won't do another will. This goes for the ladies too so it is important to be secure within yourself & don't let people hold this mental power over you. & that's another thing, he never mentions if he asked for a commitment or clarified what they were which he should have before they went to Tiffany's at least. But again, do not shame this guy for falling for someone that said all the right things. I guarantee a lot of you would fall for this shit in a heart beat if a young hot sexy girl or guy gassed you up. It is a drug, & she was the high, it just cost money. Like gambling or any other addiction.

Honestly, he should be glad that she even met with him at all. Let alone have sex with him the FIRST night. She is a trooper if you ask me. I know girls that get money from men all the time that never ever meet up with them.

So to answer the question, does she like you bro? She might, & she might just be playing this game to keep you chasing her. I say she might because you must be a decent enough guy for her to sleep with you the first night. Not all girls care but most do. We are not like men we are a little more choosy. She could have easily said that you guys can go for lunch & that's it. She let you book an air bnb. also, it is your fault for her spending the money on that. As a man, you should book it & she is teaching you that whatever money you give her goes to her & her alleged child. So don't let her handle those transactions.

If you really like her, & want the truth, you need to pull back. If she doesn't chase you there's your answer. Or even pretend to be dating someone else & stop giving her money, see if she gets jealous. If she does, then yes she had hidden feelings for you. You are 28, not 88. She doesn't have to suck it up to sleep with you, she did it because she wanted to. It was planned, hence getting the room. That is all folks.

[sarahfasha]

Today’s post was inspired by a video one of my fellow Goddesses posted in our private Facebook group. If you are a woman who can handle opinions drastically different than her own, without judgment…

This is one of my favorite blogs. Only thing I disagree with is, I’ll be damned if I get dressed up and pay my own way - good date or not. <3

[sarahfasha]

Like a Netflix Binge Series You Don’t Have to Wait for the Update

Here we go...I'm literally f***** cringing at the fact that I have to write this.Question, have you ever had someone have an all at war against you & you are completely unaware that they even exist? Like, somehow, they think that you are secretly antagonizing them when really, YOU DON'T EVEN REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE ALIVE, let alone have an "issue" with you??? I've always been popular so, I guess I should just get used to it by now. But yea, the narcissism & delusion & mental health issues are real & quite frankly, I'm really sick of people looking for problems because they are bored & want attention. You want attention, ta da! Here you go!So the letter I posted last week that came from my secret admirer aka anonymous cat hater letter in my mailbox has been revealed to me by a little birdie online. Now Listen, I LITERALLY do not know this girl personally but somehow I am supposed to magically know that SHE is the one sending me anonymous threats in my mailbox...or else? I never even suspected her to be honest, she is not someone I see, or even think about. AT ALL.I really don't care to waste my time dealing with this but because it is the safety of our animals in the community I have to share it because the comments on the post are quite disturbing to say the least. Like, look, I'm sorry that the cat I DO NOT OWN occasionally strolls across your porch, along with other cats, possums, frogs, snakes, and whatever else you can find here in GA. I'm sorry! But I cannot control free spirits. Especially when they are not damaging your property, I'm so sorry they exist. Not sure what else I am to do? I'm literally apologizing on behalf of stray cats all over the world. Please accept my sincere apologies that cats roam around outside. I'll have to talk to God about this, one-on-one to get this impossible non-issue resolved asap ma'am.But seriously, and once again, I do not own any cats, & even if I did, no one has a right to threaten the safety of any animals out here because "they don't like it." Not once was anything mentioned about her property (she doesn't own btw) being destroyed or if she is even allergic to cats. Not sure how anything can bother you to the point where you are determined to MURDER it.This is ridiculous. I don't know you, I don't want to know you, & the comments left on her page because she is so disturbed by the existence of animals is beyond monstrous. I'm glad to know who the animal haters are in the community that are actively encouraging her to get Anti-Freeze & Asprin or whatever, in efforts to poison stray cats.These posts were made 17 & 21 Feb. I literally did not discover them until yesterday....like over ten days later...that's how oblivious I am to someone who hates me & is cussing me out on her page....by herself...yea...Also, on 28 Feb, I made a police report. She is to have no contact with me (which other then the letter I've NEVER SPOKEN TO HER ANYWAY!) so please keep on with that. Leave me tf alone man. I don't want to get cops involved. I don't want to be involved. Theodore that cat doesn't want to be involved. Bomba the possum doesn't want to be involved. No one wants to be involved with you! Literally, no human, animal or insect gives af about you girl, like just stop!I can't believe I'm dealing with such a stupid non-issue. If she knew any better she would know that Theodore the cat is married to the streets, not me anyway, but that's what you get when you assume instead of talking to your neighbor like a normal adult.So, for the grand finale, below are the links, and don't worry the cops have the links & screenshots already in case it gets deleted, & in case a cat randomly dies out of no where suspiciously. And because it has to be said, my house is covered with cameras, so don't harass me please. Also folks, please do not attack her on my behalf, I don't want any problems, I want to be left tf alone. This is stupid & time consuming & I could be feeding cats right now if I didn't have to write this essay for fuck's sake. Didn't you ever see "Don't f*** with Cats"???? I'm going to feed random cats now at midnight. Bye.

https://www.facebook.com/naeemah.../posts/6985035521538029

https://www.facebook.com/naeemah.../posts/7007064346001813

[sarahfasha]

Haven’t You Seen Don’t F**k w/Cats?!?

This happened on the 17th of Feb, 2022.

Hi, I received a love letter from a secret admirer on the 17th that I would like to share with everyone (don't be jelly).

1- I'm not interested

2- you didn't leave your name or porch even if I was

3- are you sure it wasn't a possum? if so, which possum exactly?

To be clear, I do not own a cat. Have I been trying to catch feral cats here, yes, if you think you can do a better job I would love to join forces, otherwise good luck.Also, I know who did this, & you can easily google ways to deter cats from getting on your porch. You are literally asking me to do the impossible because, I cannot control a cat, let alone a feral cat. I'm literally Egyptian, that's why my people settled for worshipping them instead."If someone threatens the cats you care for, you should take it very seriously. There are things you can do to prevent threats from escalating, especially because the law is on your side. Intentionally injuring or killing a cat is a criminal offense. If someone is threatening cats: Notify the police.""Confronting animal cruelty can be overwhelming, but the cats need your help. As you may know, [intentionally harming or killing a cat is illegal—whether they’re owned, stray, or unowned."So, unfortunately, I'ma have to call the popo tomorrow. I just want everyone to know, that there are some cat haters around that are not in the business of communicating with their neighbors properly (let alone writing their name on their love note) & that they are willing to harm/kill, or whatever tf "still want him" means to outdoor cats because they "went on their precious porch."Also, if you have a pellet gun, being trigger happy & shooting cats that are the same color of a popular fruit isn't cool either, & I'm telling on youuuu, cats have 9 lives for a reason, because ya'll want to be evil with passive aggressive notes/threats. Like, get a hobby that doesn't involve animal cruelty or bothering people by asking them to do the impossible. Just saying. Also, not that it matters but this note was left in my mailbox on my birthday. How depressing to be reminded of all days that no good deed goes unpunished.

[sarahfasha]

I have never gotten along with Leo placements

Bro, why do you act like that? I’ve noticed with all the men & women that I had a falling out with & moved on (Aquarius energy) from, it’s always the Leo placements that will harass you for your attention. Maybe it’s so once they get it they can say haha, now I get to reject you, but I’ve made the connection that Leo Moon’s, Sun’s, etc. Are not only starving for attention by any means necessary, but by any means necessary. They will act a fool all because they just can’t move on because, “how dare you not put on your running shoes to chase me &  my bullshit around”