ozymandias271 replied to your post: let's blame this post on alcohol, okay
a lot of the stuff that you describe Person as saying seems like ableism wrapping itself in SJ tbh
mortalstardust replied to your post: let's blame this post on alcohol, okay
i have Thoughts on how Worst Person was basically a huge douchebag hitting EVERY SINGLE ANTI-AUTISTIC TROPE POSSIBLE but i dunno if you identify with the spectrum or not. but wow that was shit of her.
Yeah, pretty much. And I do not think of myself as being on the spectrum, at least not for sure, but stuff like this is part of what makes me wonder, because I used to get it constantly, and not just from Worst Person (who is kind of a special case as far as shittiness goes)
And while I've gotten much better at not producing these responses in the last few years, a lot of it has been through things I've internally thought of as "if I don't talk/behave this way, people will not say the things I hate, for some reason." A lot of what separates me from Old Rob is just picking up rules of thumb that I still don't quite actually "get"
Also: I should clarify that not all of that post is about Worst Person, in fact some of it is very specifically about people other than her. But it's a composite of people who share some important traits
rikerist replied to your post: let's blame this post on alcohol, okay
portland is full of slime like this and i bet reed especially
scisolaris replied to your post: let's blame this post on alcohol, okay
blurds replied to your post: let's blame this post on alcohol, okay
Thanks -- I'm not actually doing that badly at all, it's just been a weird day and my mind is going to defiant other-critical places rather than self-critical places as a result, which is really kind of a relief