Unpopular opinion: a woman in her 20s SHOULD still focus on finding her lifelong mate/securing her spouse IN ADDITION TO dedicating time and effort to any of the career aspirations she has. And no, promiscuity is not something we should condone.
It's 2019. Things have changed drastically for women in recent decades. In our 20s, we are focusing less on marriage & children and more on careers and financial success. This isnt a bad thing. We are lady bosses!
However, this is the fact of the matter. We live in a world where a woman's sexual market value peaks at 20-28 years old and then begin to diminish, as men's value peaks at 29-36 years old. These men are naturally drawn to younger women in the peak of sexual market value. This means older women must compete with younger, prettier, more fertile 20-something women for men's attention.
I sit and watch as so many of my fellow young ladies spend hours on end at work, and then hit the bars or dating apps for meaningless, unfulfilling hookups. As time goes on, they drink their stress away and accumulate a staggering body count. Their outward attractiveness diminishes. They dont see that in just a few years, they might be all alone and quickly becoming less fertile, getting wrinkles/grey hairs, etc. They may have slept on the chance to attract a suitable attractive Alpha male while in their prime.
If you want a family at some point, if it is important to you to find a real man and raise his kids one day, it is imperative for you to not only build a career and financial success, but to also remember to stay looking for your man. Now - dont procrastinate until it's too late. He's out there, probably within reach. It's more important than random dick (although that might be fun). It's more important than nights out at the bar drinking your stress away (which ages you more rapidly than you realize).
We can't forget to value romance and true love. We can't forget to get a good night's sleep and take care of ourselves instead of going for a night out. We cant forget to keep in mind what qualities your ideal man might be seeking. He has standards just like you do. Most men don't want to 'wife up' a girl who is constantly out drinking, wearing provocative clothing, flirting with all the guys, has slept with a lot of men, etc. If you want to attract the man of your dreams, you have to be the woman of his dreams.
I know you are busy, but you cant forget to observe the men around you, and shoot your shot with a quality [single] man when you come across one. You cant shy away from committing your spare time and energy to your man if you think he's The One. If he's not husband/father material, or he's "not looking for anything serious," he is wasting your time. You need to move on NOW and find your man. You cant forget to secure your future.
Your future 35 year old self will thank you.
