#self reflection sunday

[enya-writes98]

Hi, rosebuds!

Gosh, we're busy with the posts today huh?

Allow me to post something a little more fun in the sun ☀️ What's your favorite summer memory?

[enya-writes98]

Hey rosebuds!

Something fun for Sunday night and Father's Day.

Do you believe in past lives? If so, do you recall any of your past lives? Let me know in the comments!!

[enya-writes98]

Hello, rosebuds!

Welcome to Sunday! You've made it another week, and I'm glad to see you here. Today's Self-Reflection question is: "When is a time you were kind to a stranger?"

[enya-writes98]

Woohoo, we made it a full week!

Are we liking the "hey rosebud" tagline? Let me know!

For our Self-Reflection Sunday: What is a goal you can accomplish this week that you're looking forward to?

[enya-writes98]

Hey rosebuds!

I'm trying something a little bit new by introducing daily posts! Let me know what you think.

Our first one is Self Reflection Sunday!

What is something you do today that your past self never thought you would do?

[celestialthiccy]

I feared being alone so much that it became something I needed to fully exist

[miscellanyofmusings]

Self Reflection Sunday: Name Edition

1. What does your muse’s full name mean?

2. Do you tend to choose your muses’ names based on how they sound, what they mean, or both?

3. How much time does it usually take you to decide on a name? What part of the process takes you the longest?

4. How important is having the meaning of the name fit your muse to you?

5. Do you tend to do a lot of research when it comes to names or do you prefer to just do quick, cursory research? Why?

6. Do you tend to give your muses names you made up yourself or pre-existing names more often? 

7. What resources do you use to find names?

8. How long did it take you to come up with your current muse’s name?

9. Do you prefer names with alliteration such as Joanna Johnson or do you prefer names with assonance such as Amy Bailey?

10. Do you have any names you’ve been wanting to use for a muse for a while? What are they and what do they mean?

[ironbeauty]

Okay so for this edition of Self Reflection Sunday, I decided to examine my feelings towards demanding mutual exclusivity across the board. I know this is weird for me to think about considering the only canon blog at this moment, which is my Miyako one, I have is the only one I know of, but I still feel like it's important to examine the reasons I feel the way I do about it.

Um, at the most basic level, I personally don't feel comfortable demanding that all my partners sacrifice potential friendships and potential opportunities to develop their muse simply to make me feel more comfortable. As someone who suffers from anxiety, I can totally understand why seeing your partners write with duplicates of your muse can be really stressful, but I personally feel that that wouldn't excuse the burden demanding mutual exclusivity across the board puts on other people.

I also feel like it's perfectly possible to develop relationships and plots with other muses without demanding exclusivity, because people tend to gravitate towards the portrayal that meshes best with them naturally, so I don't feel like I need to enforce an across the board mutual exclusivity policy in order to find portrayals I really mesh with or to develop bonds between my muses and other muses.

Obviously, it's totally cool if you decide to demand mutual exclusivity and there's nothing inherently wrong with it, but these are just my own reasons for not enforcing it.