May 25, 2025
So many sad little meowmeows 🥺
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So many sad little meowmeows 🥺
Am I the only one who’s favourite characters have little to no self-esteem, and that fact is either clear but no cares or does anything about it, or it’s hidden behind a mask and actions no one pays mind to.
Some Examples:
Bakugou Katsuki (BNHA)
Agatsuma Zenitsu (Demon Slayer)
Tsukishima Kei (Haikyuu)
Ishida Shoya (A Silent Voice)
Keith Kogane (Voltron)
Lance McClain (Voltron)
Shiota Nagisa (Assassination Classroom)
Sokka (Avatar: The Last Airbender)
tbh sometimes i just make the positivity posts i personally need because it’s easier to say it to others than myself. but im still glad it often seems to help others as well
Having a real time lately with body image issues. I’ll cut for self-esteem triggers and stuff I think:
Desperately want to lose weight again; I’m well short of my all-time high (by something like 70 pounds) but I’m still really unhappy. There’s a full-length mirror in the hallway and every time I see myself in it I think, ‘ugh, disgusting.’ I know I’ll never be slim and ‘hot’ but I hate...well, everything: giant butt, tummy rolls, nasty arm flab, the chins, the jowls, blech blech blech. Other people carry their weight so much better than I do. I’ll still be ugly if I lose it, nothing will change that (and I could do without all the coarse ingrowing hairs on my chin and lip too thank you! Come back estrogen, all is forgiven...). It would be something, though.
But I just can’t seem to muster the willpower to do it, not enough. ‘Calories in calories out’ well I don’t know what to tell you. I’m tired. A lot of healthy low-calorie food either doesn’t fill me up enough or I just don’t like it. I wish to god I loved salmon and broccoli and whatever the hell else, but I don’t. If I try to eat things I hate I just won’t eat.
There’s a limit to how much I can lightly torture myself on purpose, deprive myself, knowingly make myself miserable in the now for a maybe-feeling-better later. There just is. Eru knows there’s enough other garbage happening every single day, every hour, near enough, to make me feel bad already, most of which I can’t do much about. The election has me sick with dread about what feels likely to happen and what that will mean for me and people I care about and everyone else there - and here, for that matter. Politics is global. Have I done enough? Will I need to take a page from the brave women of Iran, and go back and protest and suffer and maybe/probably die for it? Where would I stay? What about my job? It was one thing when I wasn’t working but I’ve made a commitment now. You’re spiraling, Bear...
There’s a thing I wanted to do and I’ve already talked myself out of it largely because I feel too hideous and ugly and ashamed and guilty. Maybe if I can lose the weight...but it still won’t be enough, will it. What am I even doing? I’m being disgusting as a person as well as a body. None of this is healthy or well-adjusted.
Anyway TLDR, I’m great and things are awesome!
Develop Self-Confidence through High Expectations
Develop Self-Confidence through High Expectations
For someone that has little to no self-confidence there’s a rule to remember when you get serious about changing that part of yourself. That rule is a very simple one: Have high expectations of yourself and believe that you can meet them. Isn’t that a really easy rule to remember? Of course, you’ve also got to get yourself in the frame of mind to start reaching for stars or grabbing the brass…
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concept: being assertive
when you’re looking for reassurance from your friends that they don’t hate you but no one will answer their texts
Cosplay
So I’ve got a convention in like a week and my dad has gone all out with this Tracer Cosplay. Trust me it is the bomb. He is a perfectionist. Thing is...I have self-image issues so the skinnier the person I’m cosplaying as the worse I feel which I found out last year when I went as Pearl from SU. Why am I telling you all this? Mostly rambling but I just don’t really know if I’m gonna wear it. I want to but I’m just so scared to. -sigh- still got a week to decide.