#self-ship

[theangelstouch]

imagine your f/o(s) holding you close as you weep, your head buried into their shoulder ... they nuzzle the top of your head and you take comfort in their contact. it's alright, they've got you, you're safe, everything will be alright.

[kayuzu]

♡ This is for those selfshippers who hide their f/os.

The selfshippers who can't tell anyone about their f/os.

The selfshippers who cannot buy merch from their f/os and are only content to watch from afar.

The selfshippers who keep their relationship with their f/o a secret, for various reasons.

The selfshippers who want to talk about their f/o constantly but can't, they have no one to talk to, the people around them wouldn't understand.

The selfshippers who want to shout at the void how in love they are but their situation won't let them.

The silent selfshippers but with a beautiful lore with their f/os in their minds and hearts.

You are valid and I am always thinking of you.

[that-otherkin-selfshipper]

f/o who always dresses really well and always looks good and gremlin s/I wearing a "I eat cement" t-shirt.

[blueykisser]

It's okay to have one F/O. Being monogamous is okay, you don't need to share.

It's okay to have multiple F/Os. Being polyamorous is okay, you're not hurting anyone.

It's okay to have an F/O of any age. They're still a fictional character, you're not hurting anyone.

It's okay to have an F/O of any gender. Even if they're not the gender you're typically attracted to.

It's okay to have an F/O of any orientation. Even if you're not the gender they're typically attracted to.

Your F/O is your F/O, meaning no one gets to decide what is "good" for your relationship except you. Fictosexuality is so different from more traditional sexualities and relationships; the same rules just don't apply! Anyone trying to push their rules onto your relationship is the one in the wrong.

[bunnys-lil-hideout]

Things that your F/O(s) do(es) NOT hate you for:

being unemployed/barely making money

not having a drivers license yet/being too scared to drive

not having any friends/only having a small group of friends

having no social life/being physically or mentally unable to have a social life

being homeless/having to live with roommates to make ends-meet/still living with your parents

being a virgin/not being that experienced

having been with multiple partners

your past/current trauma

your looks/weight/height

your disability/illness

your bad habits/routines/boundaries

your life

you

[dogman-and-peteys-datemate]

i honestly hate that i have to do this, but my moodboard commissions are now EMERGENCY moodboard commissions. long story short: i haven't had power in 3 and a half days. and as a result, me and my mom have lost hundreds of dollars in food. we hardly have anyone irl to rely on, and the very few that we do have their own lives and whatnot (which is completely understandable, don't get it twisted /srs)

moodboards + stimboards are pwyw with a minimum of $1. as long as you pay the minimum, u can literally order as many moodboards + stimboard as u want. im dead serious. tat is 2-4 days, and i can do cashapp, paypal, and venmo. i specialize in selfships, but will do anything except for pro.ship shit. examples of my moodboards are under the cut, and examples of my stimboards can be found under the #void stimboard tag

genuinely no worries if u can't chip in! even a reblog would mean the world to me. tysm for reading this, and stay safe out there 🫂

[hellfireheresy]

Self-shipping is for mentally ill people too. It's for the ones who:

say awkward or harsh things sometimes

lash out under stress and regret it later

dissociate, shut down or forget important stuff

push people away without meaning to

are scared to trust, but still crave love

have ugly, painful or embarrassing symptoms

struggle with empathy

are still learning to be kind, to others and to themselves

You are still allowed to find comfort in your F/Os.

You are still allowed to build little worlds where you are safe.

You are not “too much” for this community.

You are not “bad” for having visible signs of your struggles.

Your existence is not a problem to solve.

Your comfort is not something you have to apologize for.

This space is for you too.

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