Today, I am granting you permission. Permission to figure out what 'being enough' means to YOU (not to ANYONE else) and be that. I spent the majority of my life trying to be everything to everyone and failing miserably at being happy. Sure, I had a smile on my face and every indicator would say I was a happy person. The majority of the time, it was an act. It was people pleasing at its best - put a smile on your face and swallow your emotions. Look happy. So I did exactly that. When my mom was tiring of her struggle with cancer, she made a point to always tell me that 'I was enough'. I never really got it. Enough what? As I departed on my own healing journey, 'being enough' kept coming up. I finally stopped wondering and explored what 'being enough' meant to me. I set aside what everyone else wanted me to be, what was expected of me and what I expected me to be to other people. After a long soul-search, being enough for me boiled down to 2 things: ❤️Being truly happy ❤️Being of service It took a loooooong gap of time between realizing what was 'being enough' for me and doing something about it. Once I made 'being enough' for me a priority, I stepped into 'the flow' and everything started to become far easier and graceful. Amazing how the Universe responds when we begin to get our priorities straight! What does 'being enough for yourself' mean to you? Not sure? Start by journaling on the question and come back to every day or every few days until you find the clarity. Clarity will then give you a 'jumping off' point to see where in your life you are living to be enough for everyone else and where you are living to be enough for yourself. ...and NO, I'm not telling you to give up your responsibilities or walk away from your daily duties. I am giving you permission to begin to let the ones that are not allowing you to be enough for yourself to be transitioned to someone else or to find a way to gracefully step away from those items. You are worthy of being enough for yourself first. . . #selfreflections #putyourselffirst #selfreflectioniskey #selflovefirst #intags #doityourself #believeinyourself #selflove #investinyourself #selfreflect https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc6NrCYob8Y/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=













