Activities – What are their favorite things to do with you? How do you spend your free time?
He loves when you accompany him to the gym or for jogs. He also loves when you cook or bake together. Sometimes you work on personal projects while he sews the holes in your clothes.
Boo! – How do they feel about surprises, giving and receiving?
He loves surprises!
Comfort – How do they comfort you when you’re upset? When the tables turn, do they come to you, or try to handle it themselves?
He’s not entirely sure what to do when you’re upset, other than just let you feel whatever it is you’re feeling. He’s not trying to fix your problem, give you advice you didn’t ask for, or play devil’s advocate. But he will listen if you want to talk, and if you want him to give you advice he will, but he’d much rather just hold you. Let out your feelings!
If he’s upset, I think it could go either way. When he is feeling upset, just give him a big hug and some praises, do something special maybe like sneak a little letter into his wallet for him to find while away, and tell him you love him. Sometimes he just needs a little space though to think.
Dance – Do they like to dance with you? How good of a dancer are they?
Loves dancing with you! He’s a giant so “dancing” often translates to him picking you up and swinging you around to whatever song is playing. He loves feeling you pressed against him like this, swaying together to some slow songs with your head on his chest, your hand in his
Excitement – How do they act when they’re excited? What excites them?
If he has a tail, it’s wagging furiously. Open mouth smile, eyes twinkling, can’t sit still. Just envision an excited puppy and that’s him.
He loves seeing you at his shows, when you surprise him at the hotel, when he sees you for the first time after a long time of being away, the way you pout cutely when you’re cold (he loooooves warming you up)
Future – What are their plans for the future? Do they see themselves getting married, having kids?
I think he craves domesticity. Don’t get him wrong, he loves his life as a hot shot rapper, but after meeting you? To him, it’s not about the rings adorning your fingers. It’s the unconditional love you have for each other, the desire to make each other’s lives easier, happier, more fulfilling.
He would have a whole litter of kids and I’ll die on this hill. More on this in his nsfw alphabet!
Gifts – What do they give you as presents? How often do they get you gifts?
He loves gifting you things his mom knits be it a matching beanie, an ugly Christmas sweater, etc. He also loves getting you cute little plushies or keychains from new places when on tour. He gets you gifts fairly often, more so when he knows he’s gonna be away traveling for a while
Hold – How do they hold you? Cuddling, sleeping, holding hands…
He loves holding your hand, it’s so much smaller than his. You are so much smaller than him. Honestly he just loves the size difference and loves anything that exaggerates it. Piggy backs, spooning, lifting you as part of his workout (you practically weigh nothing to him so it’s more just for fun)
He thinks it’s so funny though when you try to be the big spoon for him. You’re so small? You want to protect him? Keep him safe? You’re just so adorable
Ideal – What’s their ideal date like?
He likes going on adventures with you like hiking, skating, exploring a new part of town, going to the beach!
Jealousy – Do they get jealous easily? How do they handle it?
I don’t see him getting jealous very easily, but he’s always down for a fight. He’s large and in charge, big muscles… He’ll punch people for fun! (Probably not even sorry)
If someone really wants to press their luck and try to fight him for your affections, they are more than welcome to try! But! I don’t see that ending well for them.
Kisses – How do they like to kiss you? How frequently do you kiss?
His kisses tend to be either really playful and nippy, or very slow and passionate. I don’t think there’s an in between.
He’ll look at you as if you hung the moon in the sky just for him. As if you are the absolute love of his life, even if this is your first kiss. He kisses you like this will be the last time, like he’ll never see you again. He cups your cheek with one hand, the other arm wrapped around your waist firmly as if you’ll disappear at any moment. He pours so much of his heart, so much of his love and affection, into the kiss that you’ve even shed a couple of tears upon parting.
When playful, he uses more of his teeth. He’ll nip your lip, your cheek, your nose, your ear, anywhere he can get his mouth honestly, and always with a goofy grin on his face.
He also really loves kissing you while doing pushups. You lay on your back underneath him, giving him one, two, three kisses every time he comes down, giggling when he pushes back up.
Love – How do they show you that they love you?
Acts of Service and Quality Time
You’re behind on dishes? He’ll hand wash them. Need to water your plants yesterday? He’s already filling a pitcher. Wanna watch that new scary movie? He’ll hold your hand and cover your eyes if you need. As a bonus, he’ll even cuddle you while you both doom scroll on your phones on a lazy day.
Melt – What do you do that absolutely makes them melt?
He feels special when you accompany him to the gym. Even if you’re not working out together, the fact that you came along means a lot to him. If you are working out with him, best believe he’s the best spotter for you. He helps you correct your form or find modifications if you need them. He also gives you playful winks in the mirror to fluster you before you do a set. Maybe don’t go on leg day though, he gets… distracted
The other thing is when you get along with his mom, AND THAT SHE LOVES YOU ALMOST AS MUCH AS HE DOES. He is such a momma’s boy, it kills me, but she is a very sweet woman<3
Nicknames – What do they call you, and what are their favorite things to be called?
He might call you his “sweet puppy,” “little minx,” or “pretty fox.” Generally speaking though he usually just calls you “baby” or “babe”
He works really hard on his appearance so he likes nicknames that reflect that. “Handsome,” “sexy,” “muscle-y man,” and he also sometimes likes “babe” or “good boy”
Obvious – How obvious do they make it that they like you?
He tries to hide it, but you have a way of making him blush so much :3 He can be pretty flirty with you, even if he’s not trying to be… He just kinda… word vomits I think, and he might ramble a little, but he still tries to be the cool guy to impress you
Pets – Do they have pets? Do they want them?
Canonically a dog guy! Cute puppies almost bring tears to his eyes!
Quiet – How are the calm, quiet moments with them?
I feel like quiet moments don’t happen that often? Maybe when he’s sleepy or the rare time he’s feeling lazy. These times are relaxing and sleep inducing.
Romance – How romantic are they? What are their go-to ways of being romantic?
I think he’s a pretty romantic guy. Momma taught him well, yk. He’ll bring you flowers, or candies. If he’s able to, he’ll call you before bed just to say good night. He’s your protector
Safe – What makes them feel safe and comfortable around you?
He loves that you’re not trying to change him into something he’s not. You’re not with him for his fame and fortune… he’s him and he’s pretty damn near perfect
Tend – How do they act when you’re hurt or sick, and vice versa?
If you’re hurt, he wants to beat up whoever hurt you. If you’re sick? He cooks homemade soup for you and makes sure you take your medicine.
If he’s hurt, it’s probably because he went a little too far punching someone. He’s fine to clean himself up but he appreciates when you wanna coddle him. If he’s sick, you’re not going in his room unless you’re bringing him soup or medicine. Keep out.
Unique – What’s an unusual thing about them that’s oddly charming?
Obsessed with protein powder and has all kinds of interesting snack recipes like protein pudding. You might still be scared to try them…
Variety – Do they prefer to keep things the same, or spice it up?
He likes the routine and domesticity you bring him. He gets enough spontaneity from Heartsteel! That being said, he doesn’t mind if you spice things up, he’s open to it and he does like the spontaneity.
Wash – What’s it like taking a bath with them, or helping them wash up after a fight?
Guy’s like 6’5 and real muscular, you’d have to have a really big tub to take a bath with him :( If you’re able to, his fingers will graze along your skin delicately, kisses placed on your shoulders and neck softly
Showers are good if you have a big enough shower though! He’ll wash your hair, soap up your back, maybe things will get spicy too~
XO – How do they show you affection? How much PDA are they willing to show?
He loves showing you affection. Loves showing off to you, carrying you, piggybacking you. He’ll even skip along the sidewalk or swing your entwined hands dramatically. If just standing, like in a line or a group, he’ll be behind you with his hands on your shoulders and chin resting on your head. He doesn’t mind kissing you in public either but I don’t think he would make out in public.
Yearn – What do they do when they miss you?
He has a picture of you for his homescreen and a picture of your silhouettes from your most recent date as his lock screen that he constantly stares at.
He made a playlist of songs that remind him of you that he plays on repeat.
If he’s on tour, he brings one of your stuffed animals that he has you spritz with your favourite perfume (after whining about how much he’s gonna miss you). He shoves his nose against that plushie every morning and every night.
Zzz – How do they act when they get sleepy? How is it sleeping in the same bed?
When sleepy, he’s quiet and calm. He gets cozy and warm even if he’s on the couch. Will fall asleep anywhere. He doesn’t move too much in his sleep, but he does mumble random things, usually insults or threats but they’re so silly you can’t help but laugh later
