#sexuality problems

[calicoboy-9]

My sexuality recently *changed* over the summer, I was aroace for 3 years and now a polyam non-sam arospec bi gaybian (in short, bi arospec) .

Thing is, because of this I never learnt how to properly romance.. there should be a guide for people who used to be aroace loll-

Like how does someone be in a "talking stage"? What does that look like? What does asking someone out look like? How do these things work loll..

[plegian-antics]

Honestly I have no idea, what my sexuality is. Apparently there's no such thing as a straight pansexual. But I'm not physically attracted to anyone, unless I get to know them and it doesn't included women, only men, sooo... Idk what I am

[shigaraki-s]

i honestly do not think i'm pansexual anymore...

i think i'm gay. just gay.

i haven't felt attraction towards girls in forever. i've only ever felt attraction towards boys and nonbinary people.

so... i think i am gay? i'm so confused! :(

[godfearingwomanist]

I go back and forth when it comes to classifying myself as bi

But lately, ive been feeling an increase of sexual attraction to girls. Like....big increase. But sadly...idk how to approach girls in any romantic way or how to like put it out there that I do like girls since most of my life ive been with guys for whatever reason. So idk if that part of my sexuality will ever be "explored" tbh. I did in high school a little. Had a girlfriend for a minute and use to hook up with my bestfriend but das was it. I think what it is for me..is the fact that I would have to really come out the closet or really come to terms with the fact that I am technically in the closet. I think thats why I don't always label myself as Bi or pan? I was fine when I thought i was on the Ace spectrum but I was wrong 😅. My sexuality confuses the hell out of me. Oh wow

[ghoulishwaves]

being a closeted gay problems

Dad: *says something that stereotypes a gay person*

Me: don't stereotype people wtf

Dad: why do you care so much about the gay people?

Me: *cries in inner gay*

[melting-pansexual-popsicle]

Problems with sexuality

See I'm questioning my sexuality now, I hate dicks but I think guys are cute, I used to be bi but now I don't know, so if I hate ideas of dicks, I'm not straight, pan, or bi, (I'm definetley not straight) and I really love this girl and does that make me a lesbian?! I DONT KNOW ANYMORE, HELP ME

[alymeowmeoz]

i was such a shame to the aroace community back in the day

i was literally the epitome of "i'm never getting married because i don't want to be controlled!" babygirl. babygirl you just haven't found the right person

i would defend my simping by saying "i kin these characters! i just kin them!" no you don't. no you don't.

i would overlisten to clips and shit of feixiao's voice, overdraw yae, have gyo as my wallpaper and make a 300+ pin board of techno. and still i thought i was aroace because that was different!! and cool!!

i think i had this like superiority complex thinking because i didn't experience love it made me cooler than everyone else

plus because of the internalized misogyny (thank you vietnam's misogyny problem. i praise you too much i forget to bash you) i always compared a woman being in a relationship to a woman being controlled somehow.

but now i am a proud allo bi with a loving girlfriend and like four muses to always hyperfixate on :3

[dandelion-r-blog]

in another life, i don't feel guilty about my sexuality.