Hey, I was just wondering if you minded if I asked what your opinion on the Daniel/Vala relationship was? Cause I found it to be extremely problematic and borderline abusive behaviour from Daniel's side and I was just curious what your thoughts were on that since you know Stargate is a problematic show.
Hey, anon! Of course I don’t mind!
Basically, I agree with you. I never liked Daniel or the way he treated Vala. It does have some semblance of an abusive relationship, the getting-together scene from Unending made me so uncomfortable, and it’s just the fact that he was never ever nice to her but constantly criticised her and shut her down, I swear to God he didn’t even smile at her once in all three years of their knowing each other.
I also don’t think Claudia Black and Michael Skanks had much chemistry - except maaaaybe in Prometheus Unbound, and then it was that slap-slap-kiss kind of chemistry that can be fun to watch for half and hour but doesn’t lead into a healthy relationship, from my perspective at least.
What I would have wanted for Vala, well I posted a lot of Vala/Cam and Vala/Sam things in 2014 and I still like those ships, but she’s lived a life where all of her romantic relationships and other relationships have been about manipulation for personal gain on both sides, so it would have been great if she’d just stayed single and learnt to appreciate the unconditional friendship that (some of) the SG-1 team offered her. What I wanted for Daniel, well I have heaps of mutuals who love him and I’m sorry for this, but I would have been content for him to stay dead tbh :/











