Hi, Ace!! Mind if I say something to your wonderful possibly asexual Anons?
I have two sexualites that are intertwined: Aromantic Asexual and Demisexual Lesbian. Confusing and complex, right? I also enjoy looking at celebrities (including males) because they are still really pretty. (and anime boys are too!) I just don't wanna date them. So don't feel bad or guilty about reaching out to others in wanting to find yourself. It took me two-three years to figure myself out. XD
Finding out your sexuality can be really easy, or be stretches of introspection until the label does indeed make sense to you. Both are fine and valid. Ace here is definitely a great source for all AroAces. I wish everyone who comes and talks to Ace a pleasant and less stressful journey in finding who you are. It can be a bumpy ride, but the destination can be so worth it.
Bye, Ace! I just thought this would be a good way for every Anon to see.
Hi Shadow! Thanks for sending in a response! I think this is perfectly well said and a good thing to keep in mind. I’ve gone through both the “easy” and the “stretches of introspection until the label makes sense” myself and couldn’t agree more that they are both valid and wonderful.
I hope you’ve found something helpful nonny!! <3
(also thanks for the complement babe! I try to be helpful when I can)