Hi. I went private for my prescription. Today I was told by my GP that he will no longer support my decision. He had previously been all for it and had even signed off on shared care. But the pharmacy and the surgery won't allow it.
Today I was told I had to cancel my subscription for my prescription as I won't be able to get my hormones anywhere. I was told by my GP that if I did get my hormones elsewhere, I would no longer be able to be seen in that surgery. They will not help me with any kind of illness.
I don't understand why. I had been given the green light all the way through this. Until now. I have wasted hundreds to go private just for my surgery to say it's all to waste.
I'm honestly just so tired of all this. I spent a year on the wait list after being referred by my doctor. Turns out he hadn't actually referred me to the gic. So I got a new doc, he did it instantly. It's been 3 years and nothing has happened.
I'm sorry for the rant. I'm not out. No one knows I'm trans. I keep it a secret. My family know. But everyone else just think I'm a cis man, this is for my safety.
Hi Anon,
Your GP should not be treating you like this especially when you had an agreed plan in place.
I would recommend putting in a formal complaint about your GP. Highlight the process you have been through and your GPS change of mind. Talk about discrimination and wanting to know why your GP is now refusing to help you. Use words like “discrimination on grounds of gender identity” and “refusal of access to care”.
Complaints can be daunting, but they can get things investigated properly and your GP would have to give reason, other than their personal prejudice for not allowing you access all of a sudden. Also add to you complaint that your GP didn’t put in your referral which is another act of deliberately stopping your access to appropriate healthcare. I would also note in the complaint that your GP had also said they will not help you with any illness if you go elsewhere for hormones. A GP cannot refuse you help or access to healthcare when you present at your GP surgery for help. This is unethical and goes against the NHS code of practice.
If you do not have a supportive GP, you may want to consider changing your GP and GP surgery. These drs are acting out of their own personal bias and prejudice towards trans people and are often doing this because they lack the knowledge of appropriate trans healthcare. This however does not give them an excuse for poor treatment and medical negligence.
Try the complaints procedure as this means they have a limited time to respond and then this will put pressure on them to answer for their actions. But if these are the problems you are having at this stage, you will definitely not want to continue with this GP for the rest of your process.








