#shittydad

[shittyparentsparenting]

My dad just said for me to go easy on mu psychologist because he doenst wants to pay one that costs more, obviously he doesn't knows how this shit works, man, i'm this close to faking my own death to vanish and star a new life, i hate this house and this family

[kickasstransdumbass]

How to show how much you care for your family,

according to my father

step one: abuse and gaslight them for 27 years

step two: get kicked out and tell everyone in the church that his wife is an evil witch that has poisoned your kids against you

step three: agree upon the divorce to help pay for your diabetic son’s medical bills because your wife makes half your salary and your son works a shitty job

step three and a half: force your son to mediate between your wife and you instead of speaking to her directly, even though he cut contact, then try to gaslight him into asking for less money, even though he’s diabetic that shit costs three legs and a heart

step four: pay once and then delay paying again afterwards

step four and a half: try and claim that the bills are too much and you can’t afford them even though you don't know how financing works, make twice the amount of your wife, and you think that not having to pay rent somehow drains your bank account every month.

step five: pay half the owed amount because your pastor found out and you have to preserve your messiah complex

step six: stop paying, claim your wife is asking for too much and that your son should “spend less.”, and ignore any correspondence from son and wife

step seven: freak out because your wife used a joint credit card to pay for the medical bills so that you can directly see the costs of the diabetic bills

step eight: close the joint card without saying anything to wife, ignore the costs of having a diabetic offspring, and continue to cause financial stress upon your family because you’re an idiot and a narcissistic asshole

and people this is just the bare bones, very summarized, version of the events that have happened over the past three years. there is so much more context, detail, and backstory than i could ever get into in one post. he continues to cause stress in my mother, and my little brother. my little brother, who has depression and has h*rmed himself recently, cannot handle the added stress of being forced to mediate between a selfish and malicious liar, and our mother.

gee dad, what a great way to show you care about your kids, like you love to proclaim so much

i’m serious, there is so much shit that he’s done to us over the past 30 years that if you gave me time to write it down, it’d be as thick as a lotr book.

[shittyparentsparenting]

I asked a thousand times to my dad to be quiet cause I'm having class online e and he just didnt give a fuck, like always

[vicisvinum]

My father always used to say that one day will come where I'll fall, and I'll never be able to get back up. I'll have nothing to lose, and I'll still find myself losing. I realise now it probably wasn't a good bedtime story.

[hard2begood]

The sad part is that they can't even recognize themselves in this...

[ugo2day-darkness]

A poesia não cura. Mas ajuda.

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[jbh1622]

All these Father's Day posts make me want to vomit.

[princess--courtney]

Dear Dad; No wait you don't even deserve that title. Dear Stranger:

Yah know, sometimes I assk myself how I can feel so numb & don't care about having my dad in my life. Like does that make me messed up? That I just don't care about you? Some say that I just threw you out of my life..but in my opinion, which is really the only one that matters..you put this upon yourself. Do you know how bad it feels to be the forgotten one, you communicate with everyone but me? Wait I would assume you do, because your dad was exactly like you. How could you turn around and be your father towards me, but turns out..I was better off without you. For one, the first three years of my life you were apart of, though I dont remember it, I heard you made bad decisions and were an alcoholic. So my mom left you. You blame her everyday for that, but would you honestly wanna be with someone that was drinking their life away..and having it around your daughter? Nope. Well neither did she. She wanted nothing more than for you to stay in contact with me, so why didn't you. WHY?!!! That's all on you not her. So for the next nine years of my life, you just stayed out of it. You left. Never said a word elsewise. Nothing. No child support. Absolutely nothing. I couldnt have even told you who you were from Adam. Thats sad. I use to waste all my birthday wishes on you, wishing you would be at my next one, did you know that? Regret, I definitely could have used them on something better (; But anyways, when you finally did say to yourself, hey I have another daughter..I was scared of you. I didnt know you. My mom MADE me go out with you and your AWFUL wife. & she talked shit about my mom the whole time? Was that suppose to make me happy? Was that suppose to make me wanna see yall again? NO. So I asked you to take me home. See, my mom MADE me go with you guys, so again this is not her fault. We've fought on and off because you wanted to come back into my life, but me being smart knew it wasnt going to last long. You would go another 6 months without talking to me. Without calling on my birthday, christmas, thanksgiving, easter, never. Did you expect me to be okay with that? You say you didnt have enough money to send me birthday presents..but a card is like 4 dollars? You have enough money to take in three foster kids..when you cant even talk to your own. Your own blood. You know how horrible that made me feel when I found out. Oh & wait this isnt even the worst. YOUU came to Milton to see my sister..I use to live TEN minutes away from there. You came down for a week..never called, never came and saw me, you knew my address, & my phone number. Why? I dont even understand how you can go days without talking to your OWN DAUGHTER. But the reason is, is because I wanted it to be just us, not with your wife. You know, the one that talked shit about my mom when I was like 9..I love my mom and anyone that talks shit about her..can go run in front of a bus. Your wife is also the reason you didnt come to my graduation. A huge milestone in my life. Thanks your so wonderful. You see, you made time to come to my sisters graduation..two years late, & I think it might have even only been her GED, your other two "kids" dropped out because they got pregnant..but you cant come to the one that is actually gonna be successful..& actually got a diploma, on time? WTF, man. See maybe it was a good thing you werent in my life..cause you were in all theirs and they turned out shitty. You came to my sisters wedding..that was in a courthouse. You come down on vaca but never for me. Are you still wondering why I want nothing to do with you? Because I have more. Your step daughters called and cussed me out on christmas, but you said nothing bc "they were defending themselves" when I didnt even do anything to them. I called you father and they got pissed. Do you deserve the dad title? No. I unfortunately just so happen to have your blood & last name. You were never there for me. Not when I was going through a hard dealing with the fact I had epilepsy, though my mom called you..oh wait, you blamed her for me having epilepsy..seriously? Come on now, like she really wanted to me get it. You blamed her for me being short when you are lke 5'9. Will you ever take responsibility in any of your actions. Will you ever know that sorry means nothing coming from you because you dont change. I let you back in time after time a long time ago..but never again yousee? cause I learned my lesson. I learned that you dont really care. I mean I hope you are happy, but I also hope that you know you have a daughter out there that feels nothing towards you. Not hate. Not anger. Not love. Not anything. You really have no sense of what is right and wrong. But you know what? See life has a funny thing of working things out how they are suppose to. Because I have a Uncle Chris that was a dad to me, my mom also played the Dad role pretty well, and played the mom role amazingly. & see you, you wont be a part of my kids life..not at my wedding..not at any other major milestone in my life. You were never there, and I made it just fine. So I dont need you at anything else. & for the rest of the Garrett's you can all go to hell too. Not a single one of you guys ever contacted me. Ever. I hate you all. & I cant wait to get ridddddd of your last name. Even your own stepdad cant stand how you treated me. Way to go.  With nothing,

your forgotten daughter.