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[abiruman47]

#KWC2016 まであと32日！！ #worlddamatee #kendama #けん玉 #mugenmusou #夢元無双 #SHONZ

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Nonbinary BB getting in touch with their musical theatre roots. Happy Blackout BBs! [they/them, my name] **please don't delete caption**

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Someone take me on a date.

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You all could like....you know... talk to me.

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I have so much shit to work through.

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flawed.

(they, them, their)

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I can't be the only one that has full photoshoots in their room by them-self.

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There's nothing wrong with gendering people though? Obviously if they aren't binary then you need to respect that but it's not harmful to think that someone's gender is what they show themselves as. In my workplace people would 1. be offended and 2. think I was an idiot if I asked them what gender they identify as. Even socially people would get aggro if you ask them to tell you what their gender is

My question to you is: How do you know that they’re non binary? Does that identity only look one way?

A lot of what you’re saying about not asking or not speaking in a neutral way (which can be done a handful of ways) is really only taking your comfort into consideration instead of the comfort and actual pain of someone you could be misgendering because they “present a certain way”. If you do it for everyone instead of people you just assume may be nonbinary it becomes more of a normal thing. Maybe your workplace doesn’t seem like a place which would be accepting of this (if you feel unsafe at all that is a different story) but you’d be surprised at how people, some you may not even think of, would be happy that you asked.