[ID: a flag with seven uneven stripes. the top two stripes are a dark blue, then a slightly lighter blue. the third stripe is a light, dusty blue. the fourth stripe is a hot pink or red. the fifth stripe is a light, dusty blue. the bottom two stripes are a slightly lighter blue and a dark blue. the stripes are straight with bumps, resembling clouds. /end ID]
this term was coined with fatigue and chronic illness in mind since we& are just basing this off our& stances. a lot of this is just "live and let live unless someone is causing harm". we are all beings. we don't have a say in someone else's lived experience. we& (the coiners) would rather spend our spoons elsewhere anyways, so we opt for being radically inclusive and open minded since its far less taxing! :)
besides, social shit feels so alien to us. we& don't tend to collapse others into categories, rather "this being is... a fellow being".
this does mean this term is primarily for those like us& (very fatigued and/or chronically ill in a way that impacts stances since putting so much energy into discourse costs spoons, or those who don't really tend to categorise others like a lot of people apparently(?) do), but is not [PT: not. END PT] exclusive. anyone can use this stance
this stance is loosely inspired by Mammalian Sighing Reflex by Wilbur Soot. especially the line "we're all apes with a diary book" from Melatonin 130. flag was made by us&
sighqueer (is) inherently...
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⬩ radinclus-adjacent or radqueer-adjacent, depending on the person.
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ coiners are roughly in between. radinclus-leaning.
⬩ hazard consent
⬩ holds the belief that recovery is chosen, not forced
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ to specify, showing compassion wherever you can when safe and healthy to do so
⬩ pro-autonomy
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ body modifications, abortion, elective procedures, whatever. that is your body. not someone else's.
sighqueer is inherently neu-...
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⬩ neu-radqueer
⬩ neu-MUDs
sighqueer is inherently anti-...
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⬩ anti-anti
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ this stance isn't necessarily inherently proship, that depends on the person
⬩ anti-censorship
⬩ anti-generative AI
⬩ anti-harrassment
⬩ anti-sanism and ableism
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ inherently, this stance does not believe in "narc abuse". abuse is abuse, regardless of the mental health of the abuser. anyone can be abusive.
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ this stance is inherently against using terms like "delusional" or "psychotic" as insults. terms like these aren't insults, they're medical terms.
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ this stance is inherently against calling those who are fatigued or struggling with low motivation "lazy".
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ this stance inherently acknowledges that not everyone will see socialising the same. some may not get cues, some may not find it rewarding at all, some may thrive in social environments, etc etc.
⬩ anti-fakeclaiming
⬩ anti-transmed
⬩ anti-TERFs/TIRFs/etc
⬩ anti-bigotry in all forms
⬩ anti-exclusion
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ everyone deserves to be accepted 💛
⬩ anti-identity policing
⬩ anti-gender roles
⬩ anti-people dragging others into drama
⬩ anti-exploitation
sighqueer is inherently apathetic towards...
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⬩ apathetic towards any transIDs as long as no one is being actually harmed. basically "don’t harm anyone or yourself and its fine".
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ this stance is critharmful/critharmed adjacent
⬩ apathetic towards paras. same as above
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ no para is inherently harmful. actions can be.
⬩ apathetic towards RPF
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ as long as not directly shown to the person being written about if its without their knowledge or their consent is given
⠀ ⠀ ◞ ⬩ and, of course, as long as fiction is separated from reality
