LUST (something that I find attractive) :
Button-downs. When men wear button-downs, especially in black or a nice white-and-blue railroad stripe, unf it's like it's subliminally telling me to undress them on-site. Seriously, men look absolutely twenty per-cent more attractive wearing button-downs that in any other article of clothing. Mhm.
PRIDE (something that I like about myself) :
I like that I'm personable. I can listen to you. You'll all tell me about your problems and I won't tangent about something else. I get you, see. I'll offer valuable advice, hugs and caring commiseration. Because I'm waaaay empathetic. It hurts me to see people hurt, so I'll fix as best I can, and that's a great trait.