#singlebychoice

[rant-to-the-void]

Well, I did it. I broke up with my boyfriend and will move back to my hometown. I will have to find a job and flat in the city nearby but I will be with my family! After five years it’s safe to come home. I’M COMING HOME. I can’t believe it. I thought I’d never say that again.

I will never have to listen to his harsh swearing. I’ll never have to serve him any way ever. I will live for me and my family. He will never make me believe that things he did never happened and I made them up again. No more angry man in my home when denied intimacy, blaming me for everything that gets damaged, his own laziness and unsucess, no more trying to say everything perfectly so that he would understand right away and not get angry.

There’s so many things that come with this decision and most of them free me. I will get to sleep how much and when I want to. I will get to choose where I put my things. I will have quiet evenings. When I’m sick I will get uninterrupted rest. I will do my laundry only and wash my dishes and clean my mess and never have to beg anyone to chip in. I will buy my own food and not feed a man from my own pocket. I will buy furniture that is not gray and ‘getlemany’. My sheets won’t be yellow and smelly after three days.

I can’t wait for this version of me.

[growthgrindtv]

Single by Choice. Alone by Wisdom.

If a man has been single for two, three, or more years, stop assuming something is wrong with him.Sometimes the reason is simple:He has standards.Not arrogance.Not fear.Not trauma.Standards.Some of you listening right now have outgrown chaos. You’ve learned the hard way. You’ve dated potential. You’ve ignored red flags. You’ve tolerated disrespect. And you paid for it with your peace.So now? You move differently.You don’t entertain inconsistency.You don’t chase validation.You don’t negotiate your self-respect.Your dating pool is smaller because your tolerance is smaller. And that’s growth.You would rather stand alone than sit in a relationship that drains you. You would rather wait than repeat the same lesson with a different face.And to the men here who feel pressured because you’re single — hear this clearly:Being selective is not weakness.Protecting your peace is not ego.Refusing to settle is not bitterness.It’s maturity.You’ve learned too much to go backwards.If you relate to this, comment: “Peace over pressure.”

[ztsundere]

Ayoko ng mabaliw at ibigay lahat sa taong dudurog lang din naman sakin pagdating sa huli.

[phuuuuwa]

มกรา กุมภา มีนามีนา เมษาา #singlebychoice (at Baan 104) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLRpncGs320/?igshid=1lwl1gipmwlo1

[ehhh21]

me at the moment :)

[bigjen-blog]

#SingleIsh #SingleLife #InMyThoughts #SingleByChoice #NotSettlingForLess #ImJustJen #ImGood #NoRush (at Hempstead, New York (town)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGOTehaA6Nn/?igshid=9vni4k75i20j

[theyonaqorn]

Reposted from @fredandfar “All my single ladies... I've always celebrated my chosen singlehood. I never wanted the marriage and children that other women seemed to want. Instead, I wanted to live life on my own terms and be completely independent. I wanted to travel and have adventures and not feel tied down. And while I'm extremely happy with my choices, they're not ones that society deems worthy of celebrating. I will never have an engagement ring to show off, a bridal gown to pick out, and *definitely* not a baby! Friends will never throw me a shower to celebrate my independence because people don't celebrate single women... They see us as sad, lonely cat ladies (ok, guilty on the 3rd one 😸) that are lacking something in their lives. For most of us, it's just not true! As I'm about to start a completely new chapter in my life, I wanted to celebrate the choices that have made it possible. The Victorians had a custom whereby single women (and men) who had no interest in marriage would wear a pinky ring on their left hand as a sign to the world that they were single, but not looking. I wanted to embrace that tradition. So, in searching for a ring to do that, I came across @fredandfar . I found the most gorgeous ring that is designed to symbolize a woman's commitment to herself. I fell in love immediately and purchased it right away. It arrived yesterday and I couldn't be more thrilled! So, here I am, single AF, and proud to show it off. 💍 This is not an ad, just a product I love and wanted to share. Love yourself, ladies!” Welcome @shopbuyposh your sparkling spirit is delicious and we are lucky to have you with us. 💗 Melody #selflovepinkyring #selflovejourney #selfcaresunday #singlebychoice #selfpartnered #selfpartnering #selflovering #singlelifestyle #singleaf #chooseyourself - #regrann https://www.instagram.com/p/B-MkYD0Jc_U/?igshid=12c6t1hhxvqsy

[sluttygoddesspodcast]

28 days of Loving Me & Who am I Journey ♥️ : : Day 1 of Loving Me & Who am I Journey: I’m going to try my best to do something that I’ve not done before and that’s to put all my focus, tine, and energy on me. To sit back, be patient with myself, listen to what I’m saying, pay attention to what I’m feeling, and make time to get to know me, find out what I like and what I really need and want in my life to continue to grow, give me peace, happiness, and balance. : I decided to take a 28 day “loving me” and “who am I” journey to celebration Myself, Valentine’s Day, and the Greatness of Black People. This should be interesting 🧐 : January was just as bad for me as December was BUT today February 1, 2020 is my new year and my choice to think differently, react and respond differently, create my new on purpose and always with passion life... I’ve been through a lot in 2 years and they were the hardest two years of my adult life. : I’m finally in a much better head space and I look forward to this new life that I have been given... I’m ready to live for me and to only do what will continue to elevate my personal and professional life. : Insanity is doing the same thing over and over many times and expecting a different result 🤔 : Happy first day of February... what are you doing to creating a better life for yourself? :————————————————: #blacksingles #beingsingle #singlebychoice #mindsetchange #createyourlife #livingforme #letmebegreat #iamthegreatest #lovingme #beingme #lovinglife❤️ #sandeeismyname #iamaweirdope (at B R O O K L Y N!*) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8Bj0_9pgh7/?igshid=15tlmcs5thizs