#singlethoughts

[nova-pipping]

Thoughts of the perpetually single #2

I am

a single woman with a D20 in hand

Looking for

a fellow half-elf wizard adventurer at the local tavern

Ready to

read books and kick ass

[soul-trap-and-chill]

Sometimes I wanna be in love again, other times I’m enjoying my single season tho…

[wolfyskedge]

The wind whispered through the ancient pines, a gentle rustle against the white fur of the temple wolf. It gazed down at the swirling pool of water within the temple. It was a place of ancient magic, where the forest's secrets were carried on the currents of the pool. Every so often, a message in a bottle would surface, a piece of the world's tapestry carried by the winds.

It had always read the scrolls within these bottles, piecing together the lives of those who had sent them out upon the currents. But lately, the messages had changed. They were fragments, not full stories. A single line, a thought, a fleeting whisper.

Today, a new bottle bobbed to the surface. The wolf dipped its muzzle into the water, retrieving the glass vessel. The parchment within was damp, but the ink remained.

𓍯𓂃𓂃𓂃When there's a flood in your to-do list and you just don't wanna touch them at all.𓂃𓂃𓂃

A curious shift in the air. A feeling as if the very earth itself had sighed. The words themselves felt heavy, laden with a weariness he knew too well. The wolf closed its eyes, inhaling the scent of pine and moss, the scent of the forest's wisdom.

The wolf let out a soft, mournful howl. It understood. This was not a story, but a reflection. The weight of the world, the constant rush of life, a feeling he knew all too well. It lowered its head, placing the bottle back in the swirling pool.

In an instant, the bottle vanished into thin air, dissolving like a dream.

[ken-ley]

To all the marites,

Telling me, oy bakit single ka pa, 28 ka na mag asawa ka na, oy kelan ka magkakajowa lumandi ka kasi, ang choosy mo kasi. Tatanda ka niyan na dalaga, etc.

I don't want to talk about it or ethier be rude, or even answer them in sarcasm or jump to their pokes fun at, but here's the thing.

1st - this is not your life, it's my life I am happy dealing with it.

2nd- I'm preserved and conserved.. Respect it.

3rd- imbes na ako kami inaatupag niyo, improve yourself, buti nga hindi kami dumadag sa mga kakilala or kaibigan niyo na pinoproblema niyo kasi kung sino sino na lang pinapakikilala sa inyo.

4th- I don't understand what's good in collect and select, all i understand with it is "habang parami nang parami, padumi nang padumi.."

5th- i know how to wait, I trust Him☝️, kaya mag hintay kayo! 🙂🤗

[iampatrick87]

If you rely on others to make you happy, you will never be happy. Happiness is found within. 🌴💕💛 #hugot #travel #igdaily #singlethoughts #life #journey (at Davao Bamboo Sanctuary and Ecological Park) https://www.instagram.com/p/CKgs-uZFaZA/?igshid=5i9773aj3zyh

[nova-pipping]

Thoughts of the perpetually single

I was sitting in the living room while mum was watching Sex and the City (the movie) and there was a line about your “happy ending” being marrying the perfect guy.

Why is that the definition of a happy ending? Movies, tv shows, songs and even musicals teach us that a happy ending involves being in a relationship and this fucks up everyone who relationships don’t come easy to, or at all.

Where is this coming from?

Well, yes I admit that biologically we are designed to reproduce and programmed to want to. Then religion came along and chastised our natural instinct to fuck anything that moves and said that we must find one, and only one, mate to legally bind yourself to, with a contract that if broken will damn you to hell.

So, it is a little difficult when you find yourself 18 years into single life which, according to tv shows and films, is the peak time for finding the love of your life after some great romantic comedic adventure.

Right, so there’s something wrong with me, it’s all my fault no one wants to date me and that’s awful because I’m supposed to have a boyfriend right now - that is what I’m told is supposed to happen. Great, now I both blame and hate myself and have cripplingly low self-esteem.

I want to be able to live my life content and happy in my singleness. A boyfriend should be an exciting possibility, not a necessity. I would love to have that attitude, I’m sure I am able to have that attitude. So what’s stopping me? Well apart from my raging, sexually fuelled hormones dictating my thoughts, I find little guidance in the world around me. The media is only showing me ‘success’ stories of people prettier than me, or completely screws up any alternative in a really messed up way (Sierra Burgess). Instead of receiving helpful, inspiring messages about how to navigate my hormone-dictated world and find solace and strength in singleness, I’m force-fed this fairytale delusion that as long as I’m true to myself, I will find my true love and therefore I will be happy. Fuck that. Show me people who find happiness in themselves, and themselves alone, despite having no luck in the romance department. Show me that it’s okay not to have a boyfriend, that it’s okay to be single for my entire life, that it’s okay to choose that path because I’d rather be happy alone than in a deluded, forced and sickeningly damaging relationship. Show me reality in today’s modern world where, because we’ve supposedly surpassed our base reproductive desires it is our duty to find a mate for religious, spiritual and/or social reasons, yet I am still valid, successful and happy being single.

[mr-meatyvegan]

Fact

I want to find someone who gets as excited to talk to me every day like how I get excited when I see cheesecake on any menu. Shit would be dope.

[singlethoughtsblogger-blog]

Love yourself before loving someone else