A Spell to Dull Your Feelings for Someone
(can be performed with no tools, but is a more powerful experience with them) Ignite a match. Light a white candle with it. Lift some sage over the candle flame until it catches on fire, and as it does, speak these words: “This fire that has sparked in my chest, though beautiful and exciting, must remain controlled to remain safe.”. Then blow out the fire so that the sage still burns, but in a very controlled, calm manner. Once the fire has been tamed, lay the sage down on a stone of some sort, pick up a notepad, and write these questions down along with your personal answers to each: “Is there anything I’ve done or was considering that I might regret one day? What’s the weight of my options and which do i choose? What are the possible consequences? Are they worth it?”. Once you’ve made sure that as you follow your heart, you’re taking your mind with you, put out the sage and live with confidence.
