#skasks

[loveydoveykirk]

have you considered,,,, lupberry?

lupberry will live on in my heart forever

[cloakberen]

bruhhh this is cool as shit

thanks :’) i was thinking of making all the players members of the blog if they wanted or smthn !!! but yea im just runnin a lil aesthetic blog for the losers now

[disabledfabian]

Sorry if this is rude but, I was wondering what's bbtta and what's clowyn?

no ur good!

bbtta is beauty bois tabletop adventures! i made it back. like over a year and like 2 months ago now. jeez. anyway every sunday we play dnd and/or fiasco. 

it consists of our dm @merpwrites

the players are @hubear, @tomorrow-is-forever-all-ours, @thebeatneverleaves, @whatcraft, our dm’s bf, a new person’s url who i dont know

clowyn is the ship name of cloak (my gnome rogue) and rae’wyn (@hubear’s elf cleric), the gay wives

[disabledfabian]

the thing with ian is that i don't think she's ever confirmed what gender label she uses? i agree that people shouldn't call her a woman/female because all we know is that she uses any pronouns but.. it's possible to be nonbinary and a woman and that shouldn't be completely ignored. idk why i'm sending this ask cause i agree with you lol i hope you don't mind me just sharing my thoughts

as a nonbinary person and someone who has talked to ian about their gender (i was the one who asked about their pronouns and then they dm'ed me their gender on twitter) i know we shouldnt be calling them a woman without them saying its ok. most nonbinary people do NOT like being called women or men bc we dont fit on the spectrum (thus the whole “nonbinary” thing) and its just. leaning on transphobic. unless ian says that you can refer to them as a woman, dont. even if they refer to themselves as a woman, it doesnt mean people have the right. certain people get certain privileges (ie, my family can use she/her pronouns with me but everyone else has to use they/them).just. gender is a tricky thing and this need to be “supportive” is rubbing me the wrong way. stop calling ian a woman when you could call them what they are, nonbinary.

[disabledfabian]

If you could make some easy allies phone backgrounds with the logo or name that would be awesome!

here they are and ive made some before here and here

[disabledfabian]

16 and best coop buddies?

sorry bro i dont do uneasy alliances here

[disabledfabian]

Can I ask you for some D&D advice? I'm in a campaign where I'm the only female player in a group of 6. I'm also currently the only female PC in the group. I wanted to prepare a back-up character in case something happens, but I wasn't sure what gender to make the character. I'm not sure if I should play a male so I don't get stuck playing my gender the whole campaign or play a female so the group has some gender diversity. I'd make them agender but I know the group would just call them 'she'.

i’m like the only nb in some of my groups so i feel you. 

as for being the only female PC that sucks but a lot of people’s first characters are a representation of them i feel like??? at least in my 2903432 groups i’ve started that’s my experience? so that might be just what they’re comfortable with.

having a backup character is a good idea because sometimes death does happen. i mean, if death does happen you can go to a necromancer but anyway backup characters are good. 

play whatever gender character you wanna play! if you wanna play male, if you wanna play female, if you wanna play off-the-binary that’s cool.

as for the pronouns part some agenders do use she/her he/him pronouns??? so that’s fine unless you specifically want like they/them pronouns. if you do want they/them i recommend talking to the most open or “liberal” i guess? say hey this is my new character blah blah blah they use they/them pronouns please try and respect that. then gradually go around with the rest of the group.

do try and convince the DM as they will be the one using your character’s pronouns most often.

like it sucks that this has to happen but this is the world we live in my guy

[disabledfabian]

omg could you do the eza logo in the ace flag colors for the background? u da best

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