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[tessa1602]

Pompoenpuree maken in de Snelkookpan

Een persoonlijke update waarom het zo stil was op mijn blog en een recept om Pompoenpuree te maken in de Snelkookpan

Pompoenpuree maken in de Snelkookpan Door lieve lezers werd ik er op gewezen dat het wel erg stil op mijn blog was en ze me misten. Zo lief. Ik had even geen inspiratie en/of zin om recepten uit te werken. Recepten die wel al gemaakt waren hoor. Dus die gaan nog komen. (more…)

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12, 26 and 29? (If you're comfortable with that)

Thanks for the ask! Don’t worry I’m somehow far more comfortable talking about things online than I probably have a right to be ^^;

12. Dog person or cat person?

Both, really. I used to favour dogs, but ever since my health went to hell the less-energy-requiring aspects of cats started to appeal to me a bit more from a practical perspective, but I honestly love and adore both ^_^

26. How would you describe your gender/sexuality?

I don’t think I’ve ever gone down this particular rabbit hole in any detail before, I’ll give it a shot but it’s bound to be confusing because I barely get it myself ^^;

Gender-wise, I generally go with Non-binary which is more of an umbrella term. What I’ve read about Neutrois describes me really well but I have a thing against using foreign words when there is a perfectly acceptable translation available (in my experience only pretentious assholes do this), but it basically comes down to being (and wishing I looked more) gender-neutral. I experience a lot of dysphoria when being viewed/treated as a woman (hell even typing that was hard). Somehow being treated as a girl is less bad (yeah I don’t get it either).

Sexuality is even more complicated, and honestly the best explanation I have is that the patriarchy screwed me up ;_; I’m attracted to all genders, but with women only when they are objectified (messed up I know, hence the blaming-the-patriarchy bit; romantic attraction is a bit different where I can’t really tell if my attraction to certain girls is more romantic or platonic). And then there’s the part where my dysphoria screws up actually acting on sexual attraction so I’m starting to wonder if I might be somewhere on the grey-asexual spectrum (the whole in theory but not in practice thing).I’ve actually sort of rehearsed how I would answer these questions in my head a lot, in case any one ever asked, this is the best I can do I’m afraid ;_;29. Three songs that you connect with right now.

Stardust by David Maxim Micic, The World Spins Madly On by the Weepies and Do You Feel the Same by Silverchair. (This was a lot harder than it should be really, I will have periods where I very strongly connect to a new song, which I’ve had with the first two, but I haven’t had that in a while)

Thanks again for asking! I’d apologize for the long-winded answers but I think anyone reading this would be aware of that tendency of mine by now ^^;

[tessa1602]

Daging Smoor uit de Snelkookpan

Daging Smoor uit de Snelkookpan De nieuwste challenge was daging smoor. Hartstikke lekker natuurlijk maar zo’n bruinige vleesmaaltijd maakt niet altijd de meest aantrekkelijke foto’s. Ik heb mijn best gedaan om het enigzins een beetje smaakvol eruit te laten zien. Nou ja, als je al eens daging smoor hebt gegeten weet je gewoon dat hoe het er ook uit ziet, het smaakt ontzettend lekker. Dus de Food…

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Peach parfait and meringue? :3

I am so sorry this took me forever to answer, things have been very hectic lately and I’ve had some trouble dealing with everything v_v. Thanks so much for the ask! ^_^

peach parfait ー name a song/album that you associate with a period time in your life & why

I associate the album Phobia by Breaking Benjamin very strongly with a period of high school in which I was dealing with a lot of things. The association is so strong that I can’t listen to it without dragging all the unresolved issues to the surface, so despite it being one of my favourites, I never listen to it ;_;

meringue ー list your current 3 favorite makeup / hair products

I’ll go with current favourites rather than all-time favourites since that seems more interesting somehow. Probably my Natural Matte palette from Too Faced, my Fresh lip balm/tint in the colour passion, and my Urban Decay naked powder foundation, probably not coincidentally my three most recent makeup purchases I don’t really wear makeup on a regular basis but these are nice to play around with when I feel like it ^_^

I also got a bunch of new Japanese makeup products over the summer that I will probably love but I haven’t had the chance to try them out yet >_<

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Tooth and claw? :)

Tooth and claw: If you could keep 5 possessions, what would they be and why?This is going to be really hard, I am awful at things like this

1. Phone 

2. Laptop

3. Favourite plushie

4. Big comfy hoodie

5. Soft blanket

I think I may have unconsciously based my answers on what I would need if I had to emotionally recover from losing all but 5 of my possessions >_< Thanks so much for asking! ^_^

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32, 52 ?

32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?

Not really, there is an unfortunate trend of people I like ending up with friends of mine, but I wouldn’t classify those as cases of unrequited love. Not entirely coincidentally, both situations disccused in the second question involve cases of this happening >_>

52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why? 

There are two that come to mind. The first was a friend, after she did something that made me take the time to question if she was my friend, I realized she was a very bad influence on my mental health, and my attempts to help her recover were really just enabling her self-destructive behaviour. So I decided it was better for both of us if we were no longer friends. I still stand by that decision but even over five years after the fact, it still causes issues with the rest of my friends unfortunately. (Seeing her is still a huge trigger for me, so I try to avoid seeing her, but some people apparently refuse to accept and/or respect my choice (sorry, bit of unresolved anger spilling out there))

The second was a guy that I really liked, and I’m pretty sure he had feelings of some sort for me as well but (once again) after some painful things happening I realized I was probably better off not finding out the reality of what being with him would be like.

Thank you for asking me these! <3 I’m sorry I tend to start talking far too much when I go into topics that I still care too much about. (Maybe I’ll get over them some day if I talk about it enough haha.)

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Cheeks & fingers?

Cheeks: Do you blush easily?

I’m honestly not even sure >_< I don’t think so? I have a lot of permanent redness on my cheeks so even if I did blush it’d be pretty hard to tell. But I’m not easily embarrassed by things people say (I’m usually the person saying them actually hehe).

Fingers: Do you play an instrument? 

I played guitar for a couple of years but I kind of stopped practicing when I went to university, I’ve been meaning to go back to it for ages though, I just never have the time and energy ;_; I also did a bit of percussion when I was younger.

Thanks so much for asking! And sorry that it took me a while to answer these v_v

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Eyes & hips?

Eyes: What is your favorite show to watch?

I really like Community and Catfish right now, but I haven’t really watched tv that often these days XD

Hips: Do you like to dance?

I rarely dance, but I do like it when I do :D! (I’m not really good at it though, haha :P )

Yowww thanks for the questions!!! :3