#softplacetoland

[s0ftplacetoland]

i have loved (the way stars forget themselves into morning) —quietly— as a sword forgets blood.

we (who linger) are not the ones who leave. how holy the breath of a companion once vanished.

years pile like snow on the backs of mountains no one climbs anymore— and i, i listen for echoes that remember the shape of a voice.

do not call me a hero— i have merely endured.

flowers grow in places we never returned to (this too, is love) that keeps blooming. without us.

-g.b.

[inlivingwritenow]

May we all be so lucky 🥧

[s0ftplacetoland]

somewhere between the boxes and the walls, i forgot to stop and listen to the hum of things still waiting. a job, a house, the dream that flickered but never quite held.

i left a place to make a place, and for a while, the lights were bright, the streets were new— but even city lights dim when you’re still looking for the way home.

there were trips to places i thought would answer me, a face that whispered everything i wanted to hear, then vanished like a shadow in the rain.

i broke into pieces i didn’t know how to put together— teeth, illness, a body that learned how to lean into pain just to stand. and still, the days fold like forgotten letters, unopened, waiting for the next one.

no endings yet, just the spaces between, where everything happens without asking. and somehow, i keep moving— quieter, but still moving.

-g.b.

[harmonyhealinghub]

Crafting Your Home Sanctuary Shaina Tranquilino May 14, 2024

In the hustle and bustle of modern life, finding moments of peace and solace can feel like a luxury. Yet, amidst the chaos, it's essential to cultivate a space where you can retreat, unwind, and rejuvenate. Imagine stepping through your front door and immediately feeling a sense of calm wash over you—a soft place to land that welcomes you with open arms. Creating such a sanctuary within your home is not only feasible but profoundly rewarding for your well-being.

The Importance of a Home Sanctuary

In a world filled with constant stimulation and demands, having a designated sanctuary within your home serves as a vital refuge. It's a place where you can shed the weight of the day, release tension, and reconnect with yourself. This haven offers a sanctuary for relaxation, reflection, and self-care, fostering a sense of balance in your life.

Setting the Stage

Crafting a soft place to land begins with thoughtful consideration of your space and how you want it to feel. Whether you live in a spacious house or a cozy apartment, there are various ways to transform any area into a sanctuary. Here are some key elements to consider:

Comfortable Furnishings: Choose furniture that envelops you in comfort—a plush sofa, cozy armchair, or a soft, inviting bed. Opt for materials that are tactile and soothing to the touch, such as velvet, cotton, or linen.

Ambient Lighting: Lighting sets the mood and ambiance of a room. Incorporate soft, diffused lighting with lamps, candles, or string lights to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. Dimmable lights allow you to adjust the brightness according to your preferences.

Nature-Inspired Elements: Integrate elements of nature into your space to evoke a sense of tranquility. Incorporate indoor plants, natural materials like wood or stone, and earthy color palettes to bring the outdoors in.

Cozy Textiles: Layer your space with soft, tactile textiles such as throw blankets, plush rugs, and oversized pillows. These elements not only add warmth but also invite you to snuggle up and relax.

Personal Touches: Infuse your sanctuary with items that hold personal significance—a favorite piece of artwork, cherished photographs, or sentimental objects. These touches imbue your space with a sense of familiarity and comfort.

Cultivating a Ritual of Relaxation

Once you've set the stage, establishing a ritual of relaxation can further enhance your soft place to land. Consider incorporating practices that help you unwind and disconnect from the outside world:

Mindfulness Meditation: Dedicate a few minutes each day to mindfulness meditation. Find a comfortable position, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. Allow yourself to be fully present in the moment, letting go of any worries or distractions.

Journalling: Set aside time to reflect on your thoughts and emotions through journalling. Pour your heart onto the pages, expressing gratitude, hopes, and dreams. Writing can be a cathartic release, helping you gain clarity and perspective.

Reading Nook: Create a cozy reading nook stocked with your favourite books or magazines. Escape into different worlds, immerse yourself in captivating stories, and let your imagination roam free.

Aromatherapy: Harness the power of scent to promote relaxation and calm. Use essential oils or scented candles with calming fragrances such as lavender, chamomile, or sandalwood to create a serene atmosphere.

Digital Detox: Designate your sanctuary as a technology-free zone. Disconnect from screens and electronic devices, allowing yourself to fully disconnect and unwind without distractions.

Embracing the Journey

Creating a soft place to land is not just about the physical space—it's a journey of self-discovery and self-care. As you cultivate your sanctuary, be gentle with yourself and embrace the process. Allow your space to evolve organically, reflecting your changing needs and desires.

Remember, your soft place to land is a sanctuary uniquely tailored to you—a refuge from the chaos of the world, a haven of peace and tranquility. So, take a deep breath, sink into the comfort of your sanctuary, and let yourself be embraced by its warmth. You deserve this moment of respite, this space to recharge and replenish your spirit.

[legomars]

“The point of simple living: a soft place to land, a wide margin of error, room to breathe.” Leo Babauta Quote

Comparison is a Waste of Energy https://legomars.blogspot.com/2021/08/comparison-is-waste-of-energy.html