#sorta psa

[outofcalms-archived]

I’m excited to announce that one of my goals this year has already been accomplished! I was asked to join my crew as an official employee, rather than a seasonal hire and I couldn’t be more ecstatic! I really needed this mood lift. And it’s nice to be excited to work at a place you enjoy, you know?

Anyway, just wanted to get that out in the open. Thanks to everyone who supported me and kept their fingers crossed! You guys are the best and ilu~ 🥰

[mloyan]

Hello Dearies! October is around the corner and well I’ve got looooooooooooots of ink now. As you probably know, Inktober is that one challenge everyone wants to complete and those who make it til the end honestly deserve a standing ovation. I fail to make it to the finish line every. single. year. So this is why, this year, I’ll be doing it with @neb-land​ (facebook, instagram,website, tumblr) and @adeline-fleuve​ (tumblr, facebook, instagram, website) ! I’m so excited! (let’s hope they’ll both kick my butt when i’m late and lazy about it) 

If you’re also on the inktober ride, feel free to drop a link in the comment section! 

[askjubileebigtop]

OOC: Heyo, i’m still alive and kicking. Anybody in the mood for a quick story? We may remember me coming into the fnaf fandom.It was the first fandom i got into. I even made my first fan characters which were Jubilee, Patty, and would have been Lotus the Lion. But, with months saturated in killer animatronics i needed a little break. In some ways you can still say we are on hiatus. However, just because they aren’t actively in use it doesn’t mean Jubi and friends are up for grabs for your own projects. And i think that goes for any privately owned character right. Fan charas and Orig charas are our babies and we want to keep an eye on them. So what does this all mean? Well i made pixels of peeps like Mangle and Toy Bon. I didn’t intend for them to become used as decoration for profiles and the like, especially since i was a goober and didn’t sign any of them. But eh guess it’s the internet’s now it doesn’t bother me anymore. As for Jubilee’s and Patty’s material they are 100% mine and i’d like to ask you to not use them or any art done by others as decor or repost them anywhere...Please if that’s not too much to ask. Any further updates with Jubi or Patty will be posted here. If anyone says they have permission to use these two and there’s no info here. It’s probably a fib. I made her out of fun, help me keep that fun alive :3

[irokwashere]

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I don't normally partake in spreading apps , but this one seems kinda neat, and from what I'm told, there's no AI involved, so I'm spreading the link here, as well as on Bsky and Twitter

[irokwashere]

I might do a brief pause on Whump fics, just 'cause my mental space is uh

Whumping.

But I might turn to writing some age regression stuff as a coping thing.

Again, as a general reminder, age regression is a coping mechanism, not a kink, if you view it as a kink, stay the flying fuck away from me.

[theultimaterewatcher]

hot take: the actual WORST advice to give a kid being bullied is

“ignore it and they’ll stop!”

WANNA KNOW WHY?

this teaches them a few things.

It’s THEIR fault, since they got mad and tried to get them to stop

To not report it, because they have to ignore it!

To just put up with abuse or bullying because “they have to stop at some point.”

BULLIES AREN’T ALWAYS WANTING YOUR REACTION. Sometimes they just want to be less angry. Sometimes they’re treating people how their parents or somebody else treated them. Sometimes all of the above! THERE. ARE. FACTORS.

It normalizes bullying.

It’s a one-size fits all rule.

I WAS TAUGHT THIS AS A KID. YOU WANNA KNOW WHAT THIS LEAD TO?

tw for bullying abuse sexual harassment and also just idk other stuff like that also mention of r4p3

THAT IT’S MY FAULT IF I RESPOND

MY PARENTS WONT HELP ME BECAUSE I DID SOMETHING

A KID THREATENED TO RAPE ME ONCE AND I DID NOTHING EXCEPT IGNORE HIM SO HE’D STOP. HE KEPT TRYING TO MAKE ADVANCES FOR A WHILE.

KIDS KEPT THREATENING ME AND I DID NOTHING

IT GENUINELY TANKED MY MENTAL HEALTH

IT MADE ME MORE DEPENDENT ON PEOPLE TO DEFEND MYSELF FOR ME.

I COULDN’T STAND UP FOR MYSELF AS MUCH.

KIDS WOULD BE FUCKING CREEPY AND GROSS TO ME.

I HAD A TON OF REPRESSED EMOTIONS

I WAS WITHDRAWING FROM MY FRIENDS

MY GRADES GOT WORSE

AND. MORE.

so. take this as a DO NOT TEACH YOUR KIDS TO IGNORE BULLYING. TEACH THEM TO REPORT IT OR AT LEAST FIGHT BACK. ALL IGNORING IT DOES REALLY IS MAKE YOH A TARGET. A PUNCHING BAG.

and lastly. there is one type of person who you DO ignore. rhat’s the class clown type person.

all i know from my experiences? ignoring them makes them angrier and do rash shit to get a fucking responce.

i want to MURDER whoever did the “ignore and they stop!” THING.

[haters-brunch]

HEY GUESS WHAT

Gotham fans should follow @gotham-talk

Its my gotham account and I will be there a lot for a while!

[infxnatum]

((Right, so there’s a couple of things I wanna talk about.

The first is a PSA, based on experience.

I want to state that I did not jump into the Pokemon Fandom or the GCA thing just to ship and smut, alright? Nobody’s said anything yet, but I’m sure it’ll happen eventually.

I’ve always sort of had a pokeverse, that never really got used. When I saw the surge in activity from the fandom, I decided to expand upon it and try to use it more. As for the GCA stuff, I follow a few blogs that were in it. At first, I wasn’t entirely sure, but the threads were fun to read, so I wanted to give it a try.

Sadly, this is just a normal OC blog. And I really don’t want to make a sideblog or anything of a muse that I pull out of my ass and probably won’t like that much. I’ve had these characters for years, I love and cherish them. So I came up with the Gate Crashers thing to get involved in my own way.

The GCA stuff is really fun, and I’ve gotten to know some of the people in the Discord server a bit. They’re all fantastic muns, and I hope I can do some GCA interactions in the future with them. I’m very lucky to have been accepted into their group. And maybe the Gate Crashers thing will become sort of official.

It’s a verse for shenanigans of all sort. Whatever happens, happens. And whatever doesn’t, doesn’t. I couldn’t give any fucks either way, I just want to have fun. And yes, I know the first thing that happened was Mirage flirting with Tsukiya, but that’s just how the character is. Honestly, if there wasn’t a God watching them, Zenni would’ve stabbed somebody by now, he’s a fuckin psychopath.

Second, I’m getting rid of the Relationships page, because I’ve never updated it and I never will. Instead, I’ll try my best to put each character’s relationships on their individual pages. Replacing it will be a page for Descartes, who’s getting promoted to a main character. Anarak and Damien will remain as supports, because their only real interactions should be with the other characters on this blog.

Last, I’ll be doing something IC here in a second, once I get all the new icons downloaded.))