Synastry Observations 9
Accuracy is influenced by the ENTIRE chart
Sun trine Saturn
This is usually good for a friendship or business partnership. There is longevity and often a restriction or boundary in the connection. One person may have some status or power over the other. This can indicate one person - likely Sun - can’t be their true self. They want to present as their best self.
This can be for various reasons - ex: one wants to impress the other or one is insecure around the other. If positive, you are motivated to be your best self/improve.
Moon conjunct Jupiter
You can feel supported and protected by this connection. You can be generous in proving one another patience, support + understanding.
The negative side is this can be enabling if you allow it. This can be a connection that encourages overindulgence + poor habits for short term pleasure.
Moon square Pluto
You can encounter control issues if you get too close. There can be jealously. One may require more than the other is willing to give. Example: Moon desires more emotional vulnerability, Pluto doesn’t want to let their guard down. One can desire a romantic relationship, the other wants a friendship or something casual. Your emotional needs are unlikely to align. One can feel the other is obsessive or controlling to varying extents too.
Moon conjunct South Node
This is a reoccurring aspect I’ve seen in on & off relationships - platonic and romantic. You can take breaks from one another but then find your way back. This can be due to one person - likely Moon - feeling emotionally drained or neglected.
This connection often suggests a lot of sacrifice + compromise is needed to be maintained. If positively placed, you can feel a sense of ease around one another. You are able to support one another. You can create a no judgement zone for one another.
Venus square Venus
This can indicate some type of difference in desires, need or self. I often see this reoccur in synastry of people who are from different upbringings or cultures.
The differences can create intrigue and passion. But the chemistry may not be enough to maintain a long-term connection. You have to meet each other half way to fulfill one another emotionally. This is another synastry indicator of needing to learn & compromise.
Venus trine Jupiter
There is a good flow and loving energy. You can be supportive of one another. You can have a lot of fun together. Together, you can let loose. You may have similiar tastes or hobbies.
This can be a “go with the flow” type connection. Potential for a fling. And in some cases, this is someone - platonic or romantic - that you see on occasion. This aspect does not indicator longevity though. There may be other synastry in the chart that does tho. IRL EXAMPLE: Jupiter & Venus are long-distance friends. When Jupiter is in Venus’s city, they go out & make a lot of fun memories drinking + dancing. But they don’t stay in consistent contact throughout the year - neither feels the need or desire.
Mars square Venus
This can create a hate-love relationship. You can frustrate one another but this can lead to passion and intrigue. There are likely differences in personality that create tension. Yet, the magnetic energy is still present.
Potential negative scenario - this is someone you know is bad for you in the long-run but you can’t resist.
Potential positive scenario - this is someone you bicker with a lot but its a form of affectionate teasing/roasting.
Venus conjunct Neptune
This can feel like a deeply romantic connection. You can feel pulled to the other. You can intuitively understand the other. The connection can feel like fate or dream. You have to be cautious of building up an ideal view of the other. You can be disappointed when the fog clears. This can often be synastry you have with a celebrity crush.
If negative, I have seen this in irl unreciprocated connections. One person - likely Venus - is flattered by Neptune’s admiration, however Venus may not match Neptune’s feelings.
Pluto trine Saturn
This can be a very powerful and transformative connection. Pluto can bring intensity and disruption into Saturn’s life. You can directly or indirectly set off a chain off events in one another’s life.
Mars trine Jupiter
You can inspire one another. You can be competitive with one another. There can be a playfulness to the connection. It can indicate a brother-sister type dynamic - unless other synastry contradicts.
If negative, there can be an underlying insecurity of feeling you are not at the same level as the other person.
Jupiter trine Saturn
This can provide good support and stability to the connection. This would be good for a working relationship, you can easily work toward mutual goals + support one another in personal goals.
Saturn square Moon
This can create a rigid and cold energy. One may be unable to feel fully supported. One may feel the other is uncaring. Example: Virgo Moon square Gemini Saturn - You may be judgemental of each other’s lifestyles. You can constantly be able to find something to nitpick in the other. It may not be intended to hurt each other but one can begin to feel berated by the criticism.
Neptune sextile Mars
Neptune can encourage Mars to achieve their goals. Mars can inspire Neptune to create + go after their goals. You can support + push one another to success.
South Node conjunct Pluto
Aspecting one another’s south node can indicate a past life connection. In this case, there can be an attraction to one another. This is not a superficial connection. In this lifetime, one person - likely Pluto - may end up in a position of power + status compared to SN person.
In a past life, it may have been the other way around, thus how SN treated Pluto in the past life when they had power over them will determine how Pluto feels about SN in this lifetime.
