😈 Do you think confession blogs are good venting platforms or do they just cause drama? // @spaceyechowrites
In theory I don’t think giving the RPC a place to vent about things that are annoying them is... bad? I think part of being a long term roleplayer on this site is finding your bugbear and suffering in silence whenever it crops up, be it something as serious as disregarding accessibility or as petty as my continued crusade against groups that spam indie rp tags. Having a place to vent and have others in the community say ‘Oh, same!’ can be a good form of affirmation that shows people they are not alone, or a platform for people to offer advice. Full disclosure, that’s what I was angling for when submitting to one in the past -- It was a Tomato/Tomahto debate about my character’s name being translated differently by certain partners despite my using the canonical spelling, and my asking if this was a hill worth dying on or if I should just let my partners use what they preferred.
However, I think once confession blogs turn burnbook style -- IE allowing namedrops, letting people present hyperspecific scenarios rather than general gripes, dragging any ensuing drama out for days if not weeks, and treating all confessions as equal when many can get very ugly and call out large swathes of a community for something that isn’t even a real issue -- then it’s a problem. There’s too much room for bullying or dragging a conflict that could be settled over DMs or just hitting the block button onto a public platform. Not to mention it tends to kick a hornet’s nest and get people involved that have no part in the conflict, usually to painful effect. Like I’m all for callout posts when serious boundaries are being crossed or people are at actual risk of harmed on the platform, but like.... My guy.... Do you need to get a mob going because someone didn’t like a headcanon of yours? Or because their easily inferred headcanon about a mutual canon muse sounds a lot like something in your archive?
My overall thought is that confession blogs are great in theory but do not work in practice just given the nature of the community and how easily abused the system can be.
















