a return to sender is a type of banishing spell aimed at reflecting, or returning a curse, hex, jinx, or bad mojo back to the person who first sent it your way.
this is my personal written spell but based on taught practices, any closed parts or rituals have been excluded for protection.
ingredients
citrus
- a whole lemon is my preference, but a lime can also be used
mirror
- a properly cleansed mirror, preferably of smaller size and used to spiritual or spell uses. do not use a scrying mirror
herbs and seasonings
- whole cloves are needed for their ability to stick into the lemon skin or flesh
- black salt (salt mixed with ashes or gravel dirt)
- paprika, red pepper flakes, turmeric, black pepper, oregano, rosemary, or other herbs based on preference and accessibility
representation of sender
- you can use their name written on a piece of paper, a photo of them, or an item connected to them or their spiritual being
creation
- cleanse your space and items, setting your intention and clearing your mind
- cut the lemon in half, piercing the inner skin with the cloves, and dressing it with the oils and herbs. make sure to properly rub in the salt and other herbs/seasonings.
- place the paper, photo, or other object of your direction onto the inner side of the lemon. set the lemon inner face down on the mirror
- salt the remaining area of the mirror, sprinkling your herbs around it as well. then take the empty half of the lemon and squeeze the juice onto the mirror, chanting your intentions as you do so.
- you may add a black candle onto the top of the lemon or mirror, waiting for it to burn completely for the spell to set, but i let it sit for 1-3 hours, meditating or cleaning my space while letting it sit.
Something that really confused me as a beginner witch was 'road opener' spells. I heard people talk about these spells all the time but I had a hard time actually understanding what it meant until I did one myself. Because of that I decided to put together a little guide for all things 'road opener'. I hope this helps!
What does 'road opener' even mean?
Road opener is a type of spell to open the person up to new opportunities and to remove any blocks stopping them from obtaining those opportunities. These spells are great if you're feeling stuck. You don't have to have an opportunity in mind, you might just feel like everything is stagnant and you want things to start moving again.
What goes into a road opener spell?
Generally, these spells have 2 parts/aspects to them; removing barriers and negative energy and bringing in prosperity and new opportunities. You can do these together or seperate them into a 2 part spell, it all depend what you feel like. road opener is like a fancy name for a banishing spell mixed with a prosperity spell.
An example of a road opener spell:
Candle Spell:
A white, green or black candle (green for prosperity and growth, white as a replacement or to symbolise a fresh start or black to remove any negative energy or blocks)
Black salt (to remove any negative energies or obstacles from your path)
A bay leaf (for prosperity and wealth. write your intention on the leaf)
A sigil with your intention
cinnamon (represents wealth)
cloves (protection and wealth)
basil (protection and wealth)
an anointing oil (note: optional)
something to carve into the candle with (a sharp pencil, scissors, a paper clip, etc)
a heat proof dish and candle holder
Method:
1. Cleanse yourself, your work space and tools
2. Create your sigil. I like to use the intention 'All obstacles are removed from my path' or ' nothing stands in the way of my success' but it's completely up to you
3. Carve your sigil into your candle.
4. Write your intention on the bay leaf then place the candle on top of the leaf
5. Mix the remaining herbs together (except the black salt) and sprinkle them in a ring around your candle. If you wish to anoint your candle and roll it in herbs instead, this is the time to do so.
6. Place the black salt in a circle around the herbs and candle. This is to represent the banishment of any negative outside energies or to just get rid of anything that doesn't serve you anymore. You don't have to put it in a circle, it just works for me.
7. Watch the candle burn and focus your intention.
Notes: there are 1000s of ways to do this spell with all the ingredients I listed. If this spell doesn't feel right to you, don't do it or change it. It is only an example.
[image descripotion: a tiny spell jar on a wooden table]
Today I have a kind of job interview as I have started a side job while also being a witch full time (obligatory self promo to say that you can always ask me for a reading or a spell!)
Since I am a) nervous and b) aware of it only since yesterday a spell jar for confidence was much needed! As always feel free to change the recipe according to your specific situation!
p.s. alongside it i'll be sporting a sigil that says "i know my worth" and a clove in my pocket (I've learned it's specifically for confidence during a joib interview!)
Here are the ingredients that I used:
a jar (look how cute is my tiny one! it lokos like it has a hat from the wax!)
Every year, I do a feast for each of the solstices and equinoxes. This is the first recipe for the 2024 Summer Solstice! My main goal for the overall meal is generating energy, preparing for the darkening half of the year, enhancing success for upcoming projects, and celebrating the sun. These themes repeat throughout the meal in a variety of ways.
I always serve seasonal fruits as snacks before a feast, and that’s how this watermelon salad recipe started. Now, I prefer it as a delicious side dish to provide a burst of freshness. It brings a distinctly Summer feeling to the meal that other salads don’t quite manage. I suggest getting fresh, local produce at a farmer’s market or local stall if you can! Local-grown watermelons just hit different.
Ingredients:
1/2 of a Large Watermelon
2 c Fresh Spinach
1/2 c Feta, crumbled
1/8 c Balsamic Vinegar (or to taste)
Instructions:
Wash your spinach and then pat dry.
Cut the watermelon into one-inch cubes.
In a large bowl, toss the watermelon, spinach, and feta together until well combined.
Drizzle with the balsamic vinegar.
Serve immediately. If not serving immediately, wait to drizzle the balsamic vinegar until just before serving and refrigerate the watermelon, spinach, and feta mixture.
Recipe Notes:
I first had this salad at a local sandwich shop one summer. I’ve been obsessed ever since. It’s quick, it’s easy, and it’s absolutely delicious.
If you don’t like balsamic vinegar, you can omit it. Instead, I would suggest a sprinkling of salt and pepper to give it a little more depth of flavor. You could also use another type of salad dressing, but I would advise against using something with strong flavors that would overwhelm the watermelon flavor.
The amount of feta in the recipe is a suggestion. I often end up adding more than half a cup, because I like it. Half a cup is the minimum amount I would suggest.
This is a must-have in my picnic baskets and at summertime parties. If you’re making this for a crowd, I would suggest doubling the recipe and using a whole watermelon. I tend to go for one without seeds, but you can choose whatever type you prefer.
To make this a more fortifying main dish, I’ve added cubed or shredded chicken to the mix. You could also toss in a bit of tofu if you prefer to keep things vegetarian.
Magic Notes:
Watermelons are about 90% water. This means they have a strong connection to the element of water and its properties. In my practice, this means it has elements of healing, calm, wisdom, and emotion. In particular, also thanks to the color and personally-studied effects, watermelon is useful for workings surrounding romantic love, self love, and joy.
Spinach is my favorite leafy green, and it’s also good for you! I associate it heavily with health and wellness, but it’s lent itself well to workings surrounding wealth and success, too.
Balsamic vinegar is made from grapes! Like wine, it’s an aged product that requires a lot of time and patience before it’s ready to use. And like wine made from grapes, it can be associated with a range of things like love, abundance, and harvest. I find that ingredients which have been aged or which require a long time to produce make excellent contenders for magical workings surrounding hard work and gratitude.
Put them all together (with the rich, salty feta cheese), and you’ve got a recipe that can lend itself toward any number of purposes. For the Summer Solstice, I’m emphasizing the qualities of joy, wellness, and hard work. The idea is to acknowledge the work that’s already been done and prepare for the second half of the year, imparting energy and motivation on whoever eats the salad.
If your watermelon has seeds, you can either leave them in if they won’t bother you, or you can remove the ones you’re able to get to while cutting the melon into cubes. Set them aside to dry slightly, and you’ve got a new component for another spell! Seeds of most sorts are good for blessing new projects or endeavors. Because their fruit is so large, I tend to associate watermelon seeds with bringing about big changes or big successes — new careers, blessing a garden for a large harvest, seeking a new home, and so forth. In my mind, the bigger the goal is, the bigger the seed’s fruit (or plant, if it’s a tree seed) ought to be.
If you enjoyed this recipe or if you plan on using it as part of your own Summer Solstice meal, please consider reblogging or tossing a couple dollars in my tip jar! Doing so has a bonus benefit:
The full collection of Summer Solstice recipe posts are going up on Ko-Fi this week for supporters only! You can tip me a couple dollars, commission me for a tarot reading or a custom recipe, buy a recipe card bundle from my shop, or become a monthly member! Support helps me keep the lights on and this blog running. (:
All of the recipes will also be sold as a bundle of pages designed to go in a grimoire next week, just in time for the Solstice!
A very, very hearty thank you to @aesethewitch for the spell recipe, and to @windvexer for the spell technique, which resulted in the birth of my absolutely delicious, magical, chicken daughter. ✨🐔🩷 It was by far the most fun I've ever had cooking something. The results may be kind of difficult to measure, since the concept was a self-love and physical strength spell, but I will report back if we become a household of bulging biceps in a couple of months. At the very least, the spell child did not seem to attack my partner, and we're both happily stuffed full of tasty chicken and veggies.
I'll also report back if my partner's horror movie-style hypothesis proves true: that the offended baby chicken (he peeked under her towel while she was barely started) will steal his strength and transfer it to me. I mean, he ate it anyway, so.