#spilt attraction model

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

"a cishet girl and queer? Impossible! Not everything is for everyone!" is insane. As if cishet girls can't be:

- asexual, aromantic, aplatonic, or aspec in another way

- using the split attraction model and also a lesbian, or mspec, or maedic, or smth else

- cistrans or isocis and also another gender

- intersex

- mspec straight

- altersex

- Nonbinary and fiaspec or FINgender, so identifies as cis and het

- starting to question their identity and calling themselves queer to get into the community and exploring their identity among other queer people

💗

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Mspec siblings 💗💥💥💥

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Not exactly contradictory but complicated, having to defend my mutuals on various platforms because people cant comprehend having different sexual and romantic attractions. I have mutuals that are bisexual but only romantically attracted to women, mutuals that are homosexual but biromantic, hell, people even have a hard time understanding aros that arent ace!

shout out to ppl with separate romantic and sexual attractions, ppl with "complicated" aroace identities, and random shout to ppl whose attraction is based on presentation or specific alignment (Andro/gynosexual and what have you)

People who can't comprehend alloaros confuse me...like when I first heard of aromantic, I knew that.

[lesbianrey]

if your instinct toward a young questioning girl is to reassure her that her feelings toward men are real and that she can be a “biromantic homosexual” you’re a huge lesbophobe and no friend of mine, sorry