hi i'm late ❀ What has made you completely lose your chill? ✿ What do you think about public call out posts?
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(cut in case this makes anyone else as salty as it makes me)
❀ What has made you completely lose your chill?
The time I was getting gross advances from some creep with a neko-chan muse who WOULDN’T LEAVE ME ALONE... but also kept saying “MY muse isn’t interested in yours AT ALL, he doesn’t even think she’s pretty...” maybe you should drag your eyes up from her tits sometime so you can make a fair assessment, you sack of smashed assholes--
I don’t usually get mad when I’m the target of negative behaviour, I get kinda frustrated and don’t know what to do because I don’t want to “cause drama” or “be unreasonable” so I just keep quiet. BUT it’s different if it’s one of my friends. If it’s Hedge or Teavy or Jay or Haley or Jana or Jae or Lili or Mako or Mirna or BASICALLY ANYONE... Teavy will tell you how high temperature my roasting skills get. I can’t punch anyone through the internet, but I can make sure their ass is sore for a month all the same. I don’t lose my chill often but when I do, I don’t regain it until I find chocolate milk and my enemy finds peace in hell. It makes me feel guilty sometimes. I have emerged from the smoke of a head-on collision with another user clutching their weave before and I wonder if people around me are like “WOW... That Charlie is Not Nice...”
✿ What do you think about public call out posts?
Sometimes they are necessary. It’s sad but it’s true - it’s okay saying “be a grownup and talk to them directly”, but although MOST of the time that ought to work, sometimes it just doesn’t. It compartmentalises you, so the perpetrator can deal with you on your own, then misrepresent what you’ve said to others and cause further problems. I guess it depends how far-reaching the problem is. My disagreement with Y that I talked about earlier was between us. She talked shit about me, but no one I gave a chicken fried fuck about believed her, so it didn’t matter - it didn’t need to be made public. But on the other side, one of my pals Teavy made a public callout about someone that made a real difference. She had been dealing with this same stalker for a very long time, and though she had been trying to be an adult and ignore her, this person was not doing that. She was trying to cut off all Teavy’s potential friendships before they formed by sliming around in the shadows telling lies, following her from one fandom to the next whenever she tried to escape by deleting. When Teavy posted a callout with more receipts than Macy’s, people suddenly realised what was going on, saw proof that this person was the real problem, and though that was a month or so ago? maybe longer? now, people are still coming to Teavy to apologise for avoiding her or believing her stalker’s stories about her to this day. Sometimes it really does just need to be put out there, or no one will ever have a clear idea of what to believe, and that does matter when your friendships are on the line.
