stages of evolution of each sign - which stage are you?
I believe we all go through phases of evolution in the course of our lives. I can see in each sign the need for evolution that each one of them must go through in order to reach a higher level of consciousness and possible happiness.
Aries
1st: you are stuck with a need to prove yourself as strong and capable, you are constantly comparing yourself to other people and imposing yourself on them in an aggressive way. you lack understanding, patience and empathy. you end up being very impulsive and compulsive towards yourself and towards others as well. this way of acting reflects an insecurity within you.
2nd: the individual starts to learn about the need to be more patient with others, begins to notice the reflexes of his/her attitudes on people.
3rd: the person becomes independent from proving his/her potential and strength to others. authority, as well as the ability to lead, are passed on to others as an inspirational force, not an imposition or aggressiveness.
Taurus
1st: earthly insecurity that reflects in a lot of material attachment. the person seeks to find her/himself in the world through possessions and pleasures. the person may be too arrogant. the person has a very great internal fear about stability. here, the native doesn't feel loved and valued enough.
2nd: the person learns to cultivate self-love and begins to see material life as an important experience, but doesn't depend on this to see him/herself as "someone in the world". the person recognizes their own values [moral].
3rd: moment when the person realizes that money and material goods aren't the only way to have value and mean something in life. the person starts to see others for their values and not for the amount of things they have. she/he becomes generous and no longer attached to possessions, nor selfish.
Gemini
1st: the superficiality that is experienced in relationships and with oneself. the lack of parameters about what to be, not being convinced of your own identity. not being able to convey trust to people, wanting to have diverse relationships with everyone, but not being able to create solid foundations in almost any one. being insecure about your knowledge and communication skills.
2nd: the person develops an ability to observe what knowledge and people can add to her/his life, so as not to waste time on futile things. person begins to develop an ability to step out of the superficial.
3rd: the person recognizes that knowledge and interpersonal exchanges have great value and the ability to impact another person's life. the information is considered more important by the person and she/he ceases to live life with superficial eyes and reactions.
Cancer
1st: the person has emotional wealth, but in this phase she/he tends to give emotions and love more to others than to him/herself. the person depends on people to feel loved. emotional immaturity, dependence and lack. here, (s)he tends to defend people for the bond (s)he has with them, and may lack rationality in her/his judgment.
2nd: evolution in the emotional structure, the person comes to understand that life goes beyond the family, but at the same time and values it, but is no longer dependent on it to feel good in the world. the person seeks to improve emotional insecurities and has more self-love.
3rd: finally, the person develops an emotional maturity and notices that there is no need to depend on people and to establish an emotional home in people or places. insecurities are overcome.
Leo
1st: the need to prove yourself to others through what you show on the outside, the need to be seen. selfishness, arrogance, living on appearances. ego, pride. controversies. ego insecurities, feeling of not being good enough, which is masked by a mania for proving yourself all the time and needing to show up. you can be envious of people and live by comparing yourself. feelings of low self-esteem very well hidden.
2nd: moment when you notice that you have the capacity to express yourself. you recognize that you have a lot of potential within you and you don't need the approval of others to validate your ego. here, the individual begins to work on his/her self-expression and creativity in a healthy way.
3rd: developing your capacity for generosity, understanding that you can influence people. here, the person inspires, gives voice and space to others and with her/his willpower can teach the power of believing in yourself.
Virgo
1st: servitude, lack of empathy. need to work for seeing that the act is linked to the dignity of the person, and not that the work should have some value greater than the social, which is already so widespread around there. lack of empathy for people who can't reach the same level as you with regard to tasks and organizations. having the habit of severely criticizing people, without analyzing the space in which they find themselves. a lot of skepticism and need to do everything right.
2nd: understand the value of work, but still charge yourself a lot, for being unconsciously linked to the idea that it's only through the service that ppl become useful and valid in the world.
3rd: development of a pleasure in helping, empathy is boosted, and the person starts to notice that the world is much more complex than simply following the order given by life: study, work, study, work. helping out for pleasure, by empathizing and understanding others. establishment of generosity.
Libra
1st: indecision and habit of needing to adapt too much to the expectations of others. the person adjusts a lot to others, and forgets her/his own will. you can't assert yourself, say who you are. person doesn't judge people, she/he avoids facing problems in others.
2nd: here, the person knows how to choose relationships and people that are really ideal for him/her, but still idealizes the other too much and forgets a little about him/herself. conflict mediation capabilities being developed.
3rd: love and interpersonal relationships as an experience of exchange, but not of losing yourself in the other. the merging of characteristics as something positive, the loving commitment being taken more seriously. the ability to judge according to situations.
Scorpio
1st: dependence on people. jealousy, extreme possessiveness, and all of this masking a deep insecurity and discomfort with the fear of loss. inability to forgive. being spiteful and vindictive.
2nd: development of stubbornness and persistence skills to achieve your own goals. person learns to be a little more tolerant, but she/he still deals with latent insecurities and unconscious fears and can't define what his/her mission is in this world.
3rd: finally, note that endings occur with a certain frequency in our lives and that not every distancing needs to be treated with resentment, hurt and defensiveness. here, the person develops more maturity, being less defensive and indirect, and uses her/his unconscious power to observe patterns of manipulation but not to manipulate. from this stage on, the person sees the changes that arise in her/his life as normal, and sees death and abandonment as something more natural and sometimes necessary.
Sagittarius
1st: imprisonment to your own ideas, beliefs and philosophies of life that seem very comfortable. inability to be influenced and to listen to others. the frequent irresponsibility and recklessness of seeking too much fun and forgetting the effects of their actions. the exaggerated mood.
2nd: you develop more tolerance and understand that other ideas different from yours are sides of the same coin (or a cube, since for a single subject it's possible that there are different opinions). you use your positivity and optimism to benefit yourself and others, inspire, be open to listening to others. valorization of freedom.
3rd: understanding of human diversity and the complexity that hangs over us. understanding that there is no absolute truth. you start to admire and appreciate knowing different points of view. here, one understands the need to be constantly evolving, being open to hearing more about how the world works. you develop responsibilities, recognie universal rights such as human rights, and perhaps seeking to assert them in everyday life.
Capricorn
1st: moment when you are much more connected to what others see of you than what you think of yourself. a lot of appreciation for appearance, for following all the steps predetermined by people: school, college, marriage, children, retirement. not question yourself about the patterns passed by the world. living in your comfort zone. having little empathy for others and not feeling responsible for reflecting or doing something for someone who is in a different situation than you. only care about your family environment or those with whom you relate. needing to assert yourself for what you have, being attached to appearance. you like a lot of prestige and being well regarded socially, which can generate a fear of opening up about your problems, becoming a person of appearances and hiding your insecurities for fear of what others will think. it can create a social insecurity, a fear of being frowned upon.
2nd: here, there is no detachment from the norms and ideas that are considered fundamental for the person, but she/he learns to relativize this because she/he notices that the more conservative and concrete side of life has several flaws and sometimes limits the human experience. empathy is also developed, and the person seeks to communicate with others in a more emotional, and less automatic way, thus, instead of acting with people as if everyone were in a relationship of employment or full seriousness with her/him, the person notices that emotional contact matters too, and that life doesn't have to be so earthy, concrete.
3rd: you seek personal development, self-knowledge, and not just the material and professional part of life. here, you notice that your attachment to structures and the organization of things, which is very difficult to change, can (and should) be used to seek improvements in structural areas of our lives: politics, religion, etc. you must use your strong appreciation for certain and definite things in order to define improvements for others. this action can be done from the inside out, recognizing and reflecting these needs within you, and then seeking to act directly and affirmatively so that the structure, which you appreciate so much and which is in fact fundamental, really works, but doesn't just for you and those you are close to, but for everyone.
Aquarius
1st: doubt, skepticism, uncertainty and inability to believe in something bigger. you seek to find yourself in the world, not knowing where to start. rebellion, going against the rules, even some fundamental ones. doubting everything. a lot of connection with friends, seeing the good in people, being very open to everyone, but not knowing how to filter friendships in a certain way. not knowing how to define your individuality or simply forgetting to affirm it.
2nd: the notion that we are all part of something bigger, beginning a search for reasons for things, understanding that there is no definite explanation for everything. Aquarius's social empathy is well developed here, so that the person recognize social problems, assumes them, develops critical sense. person continues to be open to people, but he/she knows how to create a mental barrier between friendship and intimate relationships.
3rd: well-developed awareness. greater notion that we can all influence and impact someone's life. knowing your individual power, expressing yourself. social transformation. you finally seek the greatest possible cosmic awareness and understand that this passage is only momentary.
Pisces
1st: feeling aimless and lost in this existence. you seek outlets to satisfy the desire to find something to identify with. therefore, you may end up looking for many identification figures, thus, you may relate yourself to religion or something like that in an exaggerated way, idolizing something or someone. here, feelings of powerlessness and self-worth can be frequent. many feelings of guilt and not fitting into much. feelings of self-pity.
2nd: the notion that everything that is inside of you can be expressed in a creative way. your pain, your joy, your confusions. all the most ambiguous and complex feelings can be expressed by you and it's up to you to notice this. when you do this, you'll see that the best thing about being you is to accept yourself as you are. you have to understand that there is nothing to be adapted or changed. in the end, you'll notice that in reality you're always adapting to everything and everyone. express yourself creatively and accept yourself.
3rd: it's the moment when Pisces accepts her/his individuality as it is and doesn't condition it on anything or anyone. here, you have developed your creative capacity, dissolved the idolatries with which you conditioned your identity, and begins to notice your potential to impact people's lives through your empathy and altruism. note that, like no one else, you can see the people's deepest feelings, the innermost human needs. here the being also have to understand that it isn't so important to identify with something in an earthly way when you know there is something greater about us. cultivate feelings of gratitude, peace, self-forgiveness and compassion with oneself and others.
