Losing someone makes you loose a part of you, like something has been broken and taken away from your heart. It makes it heavier and helpless. This could leave you alone to grieve and greet. Makes you either vulnerable or valuable, sometimes keep you cut-open bleeding red and sometimes trap you inside blocking black.
Losing often also gets us to gaining, sets us free, breaking through barriers keeping hostages inside the heart. Freed us from the negative connect, force us to get up, clean the mess and achieve the height. Losing is not always losing but gaining-of confidence, of courage, of spark, of spirit, of oneself and of consciences of conscious and subconscious mind. Losing can be heartbroken but it also interviews you to your real self.
Losing could also be sporadically harmless, like a halt, a pause to make you avoidable at a situation or from a situation, to make you understand the value of time and timings. To make you believe that there is someone upon you, above you, (or maybe you in your subconscious mind) who knows better. Losing gives you second chance to start all over again, tests your patience and gives you strength to hold on to broken pieces and fix them, make them better then how they were before being broken. Losing could be a long lost wish being fulfilled in a mismatched arrangement, could often led you to originate new advantages with new toughness and diligence.