Hello!
It’s been a week since I’ve been online and the last time I posted something was about me, asking you if ever you have someone in mind that I could follow for inspiration (whether they are local or not) and I happen to have e-mailed someone last week, to say Hi! and have something to consult on her. But as of now, she’s not yet replied to my email which is definitely okay with me(honest!), and I could really understand that she might be busy doing her freelance works. Hence, I have no regrets on sending her an e-mail. :)
And speaking of No Regrets (as per the square I attached in here), a friend of mine and I talked yesterday night on our way home from work and the usual kind of topic to be talked about if you’re just two girls on your way home on a rainy night is... the heart stuff. And of course, the usual Q and A plus pauses to think for an answer happened and in the end she told me that yes, it’s okay, at least you’ll not have any regrets at all. (which definitely shocked me on her answer because my other friends would probably look at me angrily and would lecture me how to handle life properly. lol)
And yes, I told her, that was my problem before, I’m mostly afraid a lot of times that would cause me to stop, rethink what I want to do, and then be afraid and get over with it by not doing it anymore. So most of these days I thought, I should have no regrets at all. As long as I know that I really want to do it, why stop myself on trying it, right?
And I mostly feel like the “afraid” part is what making us to step behind and stop to go to another route for a second option. But no, I think it is much better to go on the route you really wanted and if it resulted to a good one, then great, you made the good choice and if it’s a failure, so what? You like it and you’ll feel okay as well because even if you fail, at least it is what you really wanted to do in the first place.