#stemme

[futchgunk]

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[blackxlesbianism]

This declaration was beautifully written by lesbianrage365

Black Les4Les embodies my desires when it comes to relationships and dating. Black lesbians are my beauty standard and the only demographic I have ever dated or experienced attraction to. Even though it’s hard to find other Black lesbians who are Black Les4Les I still believe that Black lesbians are worth the wait. I either marry a Black Les4Les Lesbian or die single. 🤲🏽

[stemmehistorian]

I don't know who needs to hear this but the masculinisation of Black women is caused by misogynoir and the need to dehumanise and mock Black womanhood it's not everytime a gnc Black woman just like... exists. The constant 'why does the Black woman have to be masculine and mannish and ugly and brutish and not soft, pretty and feminine' everytime there's a queer gnc coded Black woman or lord forbid, a canon or real life form of representation for gnc Black women is starting to feel real backhanded.

Black women can be soft and feminine and we deserve to reclaim that, but we also have the right to experiment with our gender presentation. We have the right to claim masc aesthetics especially the ones we literally made. It's not a moral failing for Black women, especially queer Black women to be masculine.

[knightfaetality]

Btw studs, butches, femmes and stemmes of all ages can absolutely be in community and/or friendship, however they choose to define that.

It shouldn’t be the case that we see each other only as potential sexual or romantic matches.

It shouldn’t be the case that we fear relying upon each other for humane treatment, humanising respect, pragmatic and emotional support.

It shouldn’t be the case that we can’t trust people within our own community to respect our boundaries, our wishes, and/or to recognise and prioritise the person.

[6b4tgsl]

Praying for the day a movie like this gets made:

[leikeliscomet]

Bandanas and caps with shoulder length locs, braids and weave underneath. Septum piercings and lipgloss. Camo pants and tank tops. Chains and painted nails. Rings and hoop earrings. The baggiest clothes known to man with a full face. Thank you stemme lesbianism!

[gender-goth]

BLOOD MOON FEMME

[PT: Blood moon femme /end PT]

a presentation term for those who wish to be femme or futch, but due to physical limitations are not and/or do not fit "typical" femme characteristics. this includes but is not limited to; intersexed people who experience femininity in a different lens, transfems who cannot or do not know how to express their femininity, those who are futches/stemmes, those who do not align with the term femme itself or aren't necessarily fully femmes (ex. persafemme), and more.

tagging: @womogai @fem-mogai @radiomogai for archival & reach

[bideogaymes]

ok but can we talk about that Regan Aliyah, literally the actress playing the lead in Ironheart, and her sister released the perfect Black wlw femme/stemme/stud music video and song? the Black gays win again 🙂‍↕️☝🏽